Okay i go out with this guy and we both are ok with that but he told me not to tell anyone and that he didn't like for people to know who he goes out with since he doesn't want anyone to know i cant show him that i really like him is he just saying that because he don't like me or does he really but he also wants to do me so is he just using me see he is a sex freak and he has always wanted to do me but i just never would talk to him or let him get that close then i started letting him get close to me and i started liking him and now we go out but before we went out we like touch each other in sexual ways but we don't even do that anymore so does he like me or not
2007-02-27 09:00:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's using you. Don't fall for his childish games. Dump the guy and go out with someone who appreciates the beauty and companionship of a woman. Honest men don't need to hide someone they care about.
Let us know what happens and how it turns out.
2007-02-27 09:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Yeldawk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey seems like u have a bid problem to solve!
well all i can advise is that from what your telling me you have 2 options.
option1:
confront him ask him why should u keep quiet about u guys going out is he hiding anything.
If he is he will throw a tantrum well hope not. he might be shy and wants to go our with u for awhile before the official open relationship.
well option 2 is to spy on him, find out where is goes when your not around, u might be surprised with the outcome.
I'm not an expert but i think he's lost interest in u !
hey there is one thing u can do flirt with someone else in front of him and see his reaction!!!
good luck hope this will help
2007-02-27 17:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by andi24 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hun sounds like he just in for the "sex", When a guy likes a girl he wants everyone to know! Exspessialy when he wants to have "sex" he wants all the guys to see what he's doing. Sorry but dump him befor you have sex and he dumps you. You'll be heart broken!!
I kno from prevous times: One time in 6th grade i was dared tio go out with this kid for a week by my best friend. So i did and i told him i liked him and not to tell ANYONE, same **** he telling you. (except i didnt want to have SEX with him) an i broke up with him at the end of the week. Now im not saying it a dare cuz im sure your older then 6th graders but he just wants SEX an dosent want ppl to know. hes a PIG. he'll probally have sex with you dump you and tell everyone your a slut. Like most guys do!
2007-02-27 17:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
here's the bottom line...
you do not deserve to be in a relationship where the other person is not proud to be with you. it does not sound like he even wants anyont to *know* he's been out with you.
If you're ok with just a sex and solong, go for it, nothing wrong with that, but wouldn't advise that if you think it's going to change his behaviour towards you.
definitely sounds like he has a goal in mind, but I don't think a relationship has anything to do with it. beyond that, these are the adult decisions that come with sex. dont' fret, it's ok to make mistakes, it's part of the process...
2007-02-27 17:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cut this one loose...Are you sure he doesn't have other women he don't want YOU to know about?. This one is too sly. You had better watch him. Getting you to be sneaky is against the rules.
What else is he getting you to do?
With a boyfriend you should have no questions about these type of things. Ask yourself ...What the hell kind of game is man playing?
2007-02-27 17:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna tell you he's seeing someone else and doesn't want the two of you to know about one another
2007-02-27 17:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by surfbum1998 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone. He is playing games with you. If you are not good enough to be seen out in public with him then you shouldn't deal with him at all.
2007-02-27 17:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Curious_Me 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
from what i heard, he is just using u for sex, if he wanted a relationship with u then it wouldnt matter if everyone known. He's using u babes. get rid of him quick!
2007-02-27 17:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by cahoonanthony 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That was really complicated. My guess ... he does not like you and wants to keep all the options available (he doesn't want other people to know???).
2007-02-27 17:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by douvinh 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is a player and a cheater in the making
dump him
2007-02-27 17:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by 333(i'm only 1/2 evil) 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋