I'm 21 (soon 22). I am considered mature for my age and I like someone who is 30. He has four kids, all by the same person, and two are twins. The oldest is ten. Would something like this bother you if it were you? Does it sound like a stupid situation to begin with?
2007-02-27 09:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by Cita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm okay with it so far, I just want to see what others might have been through....
2007-02-27 09:00:56 · update #1
I think you should do what your heart tells you. If he has kids AND your okay with that, then go for it! If is age isn't an issue, then ditto.
Don't worry about what people think or say because if he's an amazing guy, and you are good together, there's no point in passing that up.
Good Luck
2007-02-27 09:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a stupid situation especially if the guy is great. Nice attitude, and has a great personality. But if you want to get into this then do it. If you feel that it is a good idea and good for you. But if you feel that it is a bad idea get out of it. Because 9/10 your opinion is right.
2007-02-27 09:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you are mature. But do you want to get in a relationship with the entire package already included. Wouldn't you rather make your own family, i mean, i'm sure his kids are good, but i think you're still young, you can find someone who is similar to yourself. And i'm sure it will be complicated with kids and later on, if you get married someone will say "you're not my mom!" just make sure you're prepared for it, if you truly want to be with this man. I mean, there is a reason he is divorced or not with his first partner. I'm not trying to say divorced people don't deserve second chances, but i think you deserve a fresh start. Good luck.
2007-02-27 09:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by annlyvqp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get involved with some one that is 30 and has four kids? He has alot of baggage. The one kid is almost as old as you. If I were you I would think twice before I went into this relationship.
2007-02-27 09:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number. If you are both happy and love each other, no one else's opinion should matter. Do what makes you happy...and if that's being with this man, then by all means be with him : ) I wish you well!
2007-02-27 09:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by NikkiWy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋