im 14 and my mum n dad found out i had sex with my boyfriend.. they stopped me from having any contact with him but we text eachotha 24/7 and still se him... we want to tell my mum and it all be okay again but my mum and dad wont even have his name mentioned in the house... i jus need to no wether wen im 16 i can see him again without my mum having a say in it? or whats the age that i can?
2007-02-27 08:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
parents are never going to approve of this. having sex at 14? that is insane your still a kid, go out with your friends enjoy your child hood.
2007-02-27 09:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Dear! Yet another child with a problem. We all think we are grown up at 14 & 15 but there is so much more to life than you imagine. I was 14 when I had my first girl-friend but I respected her and what you are doing was out of the question. Your parents are acting in your interests not theirs, because your boy-friend has committed a Criminal Offence if you are in UK. I know times have changed but life is not given to use to abuse it and your Mum is quite right to take the action she has.
Take her advice and see what happens when you are 16 when you can, technically be independent but how will Mum feel, the one who gave you life and thought she was doing the right thing
2007-02-27 09:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by MANCHESTER UK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the State you are in the age of majority is either 17 or 18. However, if you are over 13 and you can find a friend, relative to live with you can get emancipated and live where ever you wish. Check with legal aid for free advice.
2007-02-27 09:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think your parents don't understand believe me they do they were once your age. Having sex at 14 is not right if you were my daughter I would be the same with you, I tell you something give it a few months and he will have found another girl, it's hard I know but it is all part of growing up.
2007-02-27 09:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what your parents say. To be honest with you sex is strictly for adults.It's like an icing on a cake.Sex is not love,don't think a guy loves you because he has sex with you. You have a whole lot of years ahead of you,be wise.
2007-02-27 09:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder they stopped you seeing him if he's only 6 mnths old !!!!!
(joke)
Seriously though. I'm not an old fuddy duddy. I'm only 28 but have three girls myself. I know that there gonna have boyfriends and will start about the age you are now, if not earlier, but, and this is a big one, 14 is to young to have sex ! That's why they stopped you seeing him.
It's statutory rape and he could go to prison if your parents went to the police.
I would.
2007-02-27 09:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by trickyrick32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fourteen and you're having sex?? -__- That's kind of......strange. Anyway, since your mom and dad found that out, you should wait until whenever your parents say it's right for you, if you mean see him again or *see him again*. You may think it's unfair but your parents know what's best.
2007-02-27 09:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may communicate on your mum approximately this she is the only one that can type this out, write her a letter and clarify the way it extremely is effecting you and the type you're feeling approximately what she has carried out to you without completely chatting with you, on account which you're sixteen you're no longer a small newborn so its suited to act like and grownup whilst it consists of this after which you should get dealt with like an grownup, i'm so sorry that your mom grow to be so rapid to shrink off like this regrettably have been there myself whilst i grow to be your age and the dating lasted some years longer regrettably we cut up after alot of difficulty. solid success with all
2016-11-26 19:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how stressed and upset it must make you feel; the thing is, your parents can really stop u seeing him, whilst you live with them, atleast till your like 18 really, or they trust you again. maybe you need to regain their trust? ofcourse, when you are 16, u can leave home and then do what you wish
2007-02-27 09:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Tom E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i dont give a rip what u think of this, but ur really stupid! :D u see i got a friend, shes barely 14, and pregnant. fer her, she can kiss her childhood goodbye, she dropped out of school......now wut do u think her life is gunna be like?? she is practically a baby herself, and now going to be a mom! its really sad, if u were smart u would stay away from sex untill ur married.
and i think ur parents did the right thing.
2007-02-27 09:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋