My dog, Lucky stays at home by himself outside everyday. I get home at 4 and have to do homework and go to sleep. i dont that much time for him.On weekends im usually busy. i only play with hin sumtimes.. if i give him away id be pretty sad but if i keep him he'll be sad alone.. what should i do??
2007-02-27 08:54:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
First, does your dog have water and shelter in his yard? Does he have dog toys and all that good stuff dogs like? Is your dog healthy and does he seem happy to you or is this something that someone has influenced you to believed based on their beliefs rather than asking the dog?LOL!
Dogs are individuals too. They also bond very strongly. If your dog is not going around destroying stuff or looking sick and miserable he is probably happier than he would be if you gave him up.
Our dog is from a shelter. His owner left him tyied to the door before the shelter opened. I tell you, that dog had the worst seperation anxiety in a mut that I have ever seen. So don't worry about what we think.
You must care about your dog very much. You know what, most dogs do not have doggy day cares or owners that can stay home. He is getting exercise you walk him and he is out in a yard all day!You play with him!At least sometimes.. try a little harder. Does he come inside when you are home? Do you two hang out so he can get a pat on the head now and then indoors?
If you are young and living with mom and or dad and they want you to give the dog away maybe you need to have a different kind doggy discussion. Is the dog costing them more money than they can afford right now, is barking or furry presents under the furniture stressful clean up, are you helping pick up pouchies poo's?!
Do your best and be happy. Good luck!
2007-02-27 09:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how he seems to be coping. Most people, including myself, wouldn't keep a dog outside all day, what is the point of having a dog? BUT, there are dogs who have become accustomed to being "outside dogs" and do not desire to be "indoor dogs" - my boyfriend's parents had a Beagle they kept outside 24/7, it wasn't even allowed in the house ever, and sometimes my boyfriend and I would bring him over our house thinking it would be a nice treat for him to be inside for the weekend or whatever, and he HATED it, he sat by the door the whole time wanting to be outside, and he pooped and peed inside, even after he had just come in from being outside. He lived to be 16 years old. Now they have had another dog for about 2 years and have kept him as an "outside dog" and he now prefers that too. So while I don't agree with "outside living", it seems like a boring, lonely, uncomfortable existence, I would base your decision on what would seem to make the dog happiest and help it to thrive the most.
NOTE: I know you said you only leave Lucky outside during the day while you're gone, not 24/7, I was just giving an example. And I think you are a good person because you are recognizing that right now your schedule won't allow you to take care of Lucky the way you feel he should be and the way you would like to. As sad as you may be, try to feel what would be best for Lucky. If you do give Lucky away, make sure that it really is to a good home, one that could keep him forever.
2007-02-27 17:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Megan~
Our family just gave away our dog in January. We brought her home at 8 weeks old back in September 2003. We didn't realize at the time that we were pregnant with our daughter.
We ending up keeping her for about 3 1/2 years, but for much of that time, we realized she wasn't getting enough attention, love and exercise from us. We really struggled with the decision because we cared about her and felt bad about giving her away, but we ultimately decided she deserved to be loved and treated as a part of the family by someone(s) who had more time for her and would make her happier.
If you decide to keep him, you should make the commitment to spend more time with him and make sure he's getting plenty of exercise. Otherwise, you'll continue to feel guilty over the lack of attention he's getting from you.
If you decide to give him away, yes, you'll be sad for a while, but if that's what you feel is in his best interests, you'll know you did what's best for him and that he's in a home that's better suited for him. If you decide to look for a new home for him, I would recommend checking with your vet to see if they'll list him with a website like petfinder.org. You can also try Craigslist, which is where we found a great new home for our dog.
Good luck,
Lori
2007-02-27 17:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by ozfan98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let others make you feel guilty about how much time you spend with your dog, it is probably a very happy dog that would not like a change in his life. However if you do decide to rehome him do it yourself otherwise you will have no idea if it was a better home or not.
2007-02-27 17:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you buy him a paly-mate that way he has company. Other wise, give him to a good friend, because lonely dogs without company (kids, owners etc.) in my opinion don't make the greatest pets and tend to be always sleeping as a hobby or destroying the house.
2007-02-27 17:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be in his best interest to find him a home where he can be given the attention that he needs and deserves. I know it will be hard but it's best for him and that's what matters most. Try to find him a home with someone you know so you can still visit. If that's not possible, just make sure to interview anyone who wants to adopt him and make sure he meshes with them before they even take him. Good luck!
2007-02-27 17:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by MasLoozinIt76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree an animal needs attention just like people do, they can get very depressed the same....You need to a lott time to play with him a day or give him to a good home!
2007-02-27 17:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Brandie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to give him to someone who can spend time with him. I understand that you will be sad but just think how sad he is now. Just make sure that if you do give him away to someone else that they are good people that will love him and take good care of him.
2007-02-27 20:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by happyme19672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one else in the family plays with him? If thats the case then ya, find him a new home. But make sure that they are going to do all those things, that you can't do. if not whats the point. I am sure he has a good home with you
2007-02-27 17:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtimes you NEED to do wats best for the dog! You should give him away to a GREAT home not a shelter or pound!
2007-02-27 17:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by d я э э α ☆ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋