Ok, he works in a different department, but i always make sure that i take my breaks at the same time as him so we're in the same room at lunchtime (lol). I've spoken to him a couple of times but what should i do to get his attention?! He's a fair bit older than me, but he's gorgeous. What should i do? Thanks!
2007-02-27 08:53:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a couple of ways to find out if he is in a relationship already. Usually the good looking ones are involved, trust me on this I am one of them. First, find out where he does his laundry. That is a pretty good sign he is single. Second, find out where he grocery shops. If he doesn't get the shopping list his wife-gf is probably on it. Third, and last check his ride. Is it a two door, a four-door or a SUV. The bigger the ride the more people he is around on the weekends. Finally, check for car seats for junior. If all of the above show that he is truly single, go for it and Good Luck.
2007-02-27 09:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much older? Married? If not...and the fact that you've spoken to him is a plus. Your best bet is to find something you have in common with him outside the workplace (I did it...flea markets!) and get together. But be careful...the worst thing is an inter office romance when it ends. You can always be brave & invite him out after work for a drink or to grab a bite to eat. (or send a fax!) Good luck!
2007-02-27 17:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id talk to him get to know him, and maby after a while take a chance and invite him out for dinner, a drink, or something like that. But make sure hes not married. LOL And advice (always tell the truth, the truth is the key to any relation ship from friends to lovers) Good luck!!
2007-02-27 16:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he married and or do u care. Tell him Ur having a RELAY bad day and would like some company for a drink after work see if u can get some friens to come along to so it seems more relaxed and then you have him out of the office environment you can work you magic. or some thing like that.
2007-02-27 17:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pursue only if you can handle the consequences if nothing good comes out of it (like, office gossip, weird, tense moments if you work in the same area or department, etc.).
If you don't care and/or you can handle all that jazz, then by all means, call him, email him, do whatever!
2007-02-27 17:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by googlemaniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be nice and polite and get to know more about him then he's gorgeous.Older is good sometime if you are mature
enough to hold his interest.You may want to start learning more,
about life and living a big girl world.Sex isn't love,so maybe you would get hurt if you're not careful.Pay attention.
2007-02-27 17:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest admiring him from afar. How well do you know him? If you date for awhile and things go down the crapper, will it be easy to avoid him every single day at work? If you have talked to him a few times and that hasn't already gotten his attention, then he is most likely not interested. good luck.
2007-02-27 16:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything stupid, dont talk about what u like and dont talk about your relationships or be boring, best of all dont say much at all but dont be shy. Wear something nice everyday to draw attention hair would get his attention and not to much makeup because u would be screaming out attention to all boys so, let him say something first and from their have fun.
2007-02-27 17:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by cahoonanthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure he is not married. Wear something that he would notice you in. How much older is he? If he is to old leave well enough alone.
2007-02-27 16:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he is single or available first. I would just start talking to him when you see him on one of your breaks. Start it out by talking about something at work. Just to break the ice.
2007-02-27 16:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋