i get jealous of my partner alot and i'm just curious, does sex help?
2007-02-27 08:42:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm jealous from how he acts towards other girls, because he is a very charming guy and very flirty.
2007-02-27 09:05:36 · update #1
No. If anything it will make it worse. Sex will just add to the problem. Jealousy is an ownership issue. You need to understand that you don't own your partner. You can't control your partner's thoughts or actions. You have to see that you like your partner for who they are. By trying to control certain thoughts or actions your partner has, you are taking away the things that attract you to them. Now if your partner is doing things purposely to make you feel insecure you need to talk to him/her. Though you don't own your partner you do share a relationship with them. So they have to be respectful of your relationship. Just try to remember that your partner is free to do as she/he chooses. She/he chooses to be with you. Don't do anything silly to make that fact change. Having sex with your partner will add a new level to your relationship. It will also add a new feeling of ownership. You might start feeling like you own their body. Then become insecure about anyone touching them. Just try to work on the jealousy issue before you add sex to the mix.
2007-02-27 08:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps for the moment that your having sex because that's all you're thinking about... but when you're done then your jealousy comes right back... the way to deal with your jealousy is learning to trust your partner.
2007-02-27 16:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you be jealous of your partner? You are suppose to be proud of your partner and supportive and want great things for them. Sounds to me like you need therapy as to why you are jealous in the first place.
2007-02-27 16:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will never help gettin' rid of that JEALOUSY,,well!! if ur partner usually unfaithful to you or being a flirt then u have a right to be jealous.,but if u based your jealousy on SUSPICIOUS BEHAVIOR,,then you have to get rid off that jealousy before it can kill your love for your partner or destroy your TRUSTS for each other.
2007-02-27 16:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a human emotion and all human emotions are linked to sex; jealousy, anger, sadness, hatred, everything. However, it can increase or decrease the intensity of the feeling or emotion depending on the person.
2007-02-27 16:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Roger P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uumm depends on the person really it can help if you think of it as them giving them self to you but on the other hand you can get some strange thoughts in your head like thier kinda freaky in bed does that mean they're like that all of the time even when im not around and since they like sex so much what makes me think that im the only one that thier doing it with? so see if your screwed up on the inside nothing is really going to help you have to deal with your trust issuses before you can deal with anything elese!
2007-02-27 16:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it will only increase the jealousy. you need to learn to trust you partner. if you cann't then you need to find someone that you can. a relationship without trust is not a health relationship, and will not be able to grow.
2007-02-27 16:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by nbatch2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all you need to tell your partner how you feel and he/she should understand and stop doing the things that make you feel this way sex doesnt help but its a fun way to forget happy dating xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-27 16:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Hayley C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Sex is fun but doesn't help jealousy. It may make it much much worse.
2007-02-27 16:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sex do not help it make even more jealous
2007-02-27 16:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by msjamie2581 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋