okay i I've been single for 3years. and I'm want to know if something is wrong with me .? i mean I'm not ugly . why do i fall for the guy that are taken already ? i want to find me a good guy . someone said god has a plain for you in time you will find a good guy .
2007-02-27 08:39:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be patient.
2007-02-27 08:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is stop looking. The right guy will come into your life when you're not looking for it. The right guy will come into your life when you are happy within yourself. When you feel good about who and what you are. Don't push finding a guy. When you do that, it usually doesn't work out. Just be patient, work on yourself, find time to do for others, be a good friend to the people that are good to you in your life. It will come.
2007-02-27 16:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm going to tell you something that alot of people don't know. Like attracts like. Meaning that you attract what you say or what you think. For example, if you are attracting the same kind of men then you need to step out of the dating game, re-evaluate yourself, learn to love yourself and then step back out there. You should see a difference. I did this when I got dumped. I was feeling really negative and low about myself and went immediately into the dating game. For once I started attracting way different guys than what I normally did, example: drug dealers, players, ex-con's, just really negative people. I leave the game went to church, did things that I love, volunteered, and fell in love with myself. Then when I wasn't looking I met the perfect person that complements me in every way. Try this it works in all aspects of your life. They had something on Oprah about it called: The Secret.
2007-02-27 16:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, I've been single for 2 years now! i think it gets harder after you have been with someone, because you kinda know what you are looking for, instead of just getting with anybody. but yea it sucks, even if you know there's nothing wrong with you after awhile you start to wonder dam is there something wrong with me!! everybody says just wait, but hell I'm tired of waiting. all i can say is try to stay positive. good luck!
2007-02-27 16:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by BLAINE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and be yourself. Don't be so eager to go on a date with anyone that you get hurt or something. Try to be yourself, introduce yourself to people and try to make more friends.
2007-02-27 16:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by SarangHaeyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i htink that you are looking for it, and that could be why you run to the taken ones. i would say just say where your at and let it come to you, but you should also have fun, that does not mean that it will come to you, its like distraction.
2007-02-27 16:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin is wrong with u, i guess the guys that are taken are cute, but since they're so cute they're taken, but dont worry everything will fall into place
2007-02-27 16:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by princess cc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well get on the plane and ride to turkey
turkish guys are really sweet
2007-02-27 16:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by deathroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet more people!!! Go to partys, clubs etc. Trust me you'll find some1 eventually!!
2007-02-27 16:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Phantom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you think about how you dont have a man then you wil not open your eyes to the men who you want!
2007-02-27 17:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for someone they will find you, just have fun and eventually he will appear
2007-02-27 16:47:07 · answer #11 · answered by el_mex_vato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋