I used to have the same problem, too, and asked myself the same question. Many of my answers were :
-being with him comforted my love for him, but we split up becoz it took more than love and we couldn't meet at all the other ends in a relationship. We broke up for reasons...
-I rekindled my romance with my ex on many occasions, but we always end up seperating and split for good, bcoz either one of us was fed up with the things that couldn't be mended.
So, i don't really know your history with your ex, but maybe now it's too inconvenient to get into his life. Maybe he is looking forward to his unborn child and wants to be there with his pregnant Girlfriend every step of the way. That is a threat to your love interests and needs!
You should talk to him about your feelings, intentions to get back with him, and what you expect from him if it happens. Then leave it to him to make the decision. Eventually, if he was never in love with his child's mother, in many cases, people leave each other-but they still love their child/ren.
I must say that it's also a little too late to want him now, and some things cannot be undone. Maybe if he leaves that woman for you, are you prepared to face the fact that he will still be related to his child's mother. Are you easily made to feel insecure? If u get back together and all this possibilities strain you relationship, then it was only worth it to know the outcome, rather than staying in doubts all your life.Think about it....
2007-02-27 08:55:50
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answered by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4
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I agree with the other responses. Love is feeling that will either make us glow or will shatter our hearts. Although you haven't moved on, he has with another relationship and a child as a result of that relationship. It's been 6 months since you've heard his affirmation that he loves you and you want closure but like the rest of the responses, Move on - lean on a close family member or friend for support.
2007-02-27 16:48:47
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answered by Vanessa ******* 1
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He's an EX for a reason. Regardless of the "love" feelings, there is obviously a reason things didn't work out. He probably just said the word cause he wanted a "piece"...!
As for her being pregnant with his baby, YOU always want worst what you can't have, and you don't need to go screwing up someone else's situation just to prove that he still loves you.
Their situation is probably already screwed up enough...IDEALLY you are supposed to marry the person, THEN have the babies....
2007-02-27 16:42:24
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answered by juicy13500 3
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dont do this to yourself. you know that even if he still has feelings for you, this cannot end well. just move on and forget about him. whatever action you take to get close to him will just end in drama because he comes with a lot of baggage. forget him and continue with your life.
2007-02-27 16:37:53
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answered by ♥ 4
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just let it go. i know how hard it is, but that really is the only thing you can do. don't try to ruin his happiness for personal gain. if it is meant to be, it will be.
2007-02-27 16:38:38
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answered by pikachu 5
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