I like this guy and I wanna go out with him and every thing but I dont know if I should talk to him about us.. If you get what I mean. Well anyway we like each other and every thing but the thing is I am afraid to ask him if he would go on a date with me? What should I do ?
2007-02-27 08:28:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you win a soccer game if you don't score a goal? Can you get an A on an essay if you don't write one? Can you get an answer if you don't ask a question?
No. You've got to give, in order to receive. If he doesn't know you're interested, what is his motivation to communicate with you? Maybe he's interested in you, but he thinks you're not. You won't get anywhere if you don't take a crack at stepping out of your comfort zone. So many people nowadays, men and women alike, are afraid of people being "out of their league" because the media will tell us that we have to behave a certain way in order to gain attention. The truth is, men and women both prefer "real" people -- that is, they like to be with people who like to be themselves. In that sense, how can someone be out of your league if you're both just being true to yourselves? And does it make any sense NOT to make an attempt at pursuing a relationship with someone you have your eyes on? I say go for it; if it doesn't work out, you're only losing the time it took to ask the question.
2007-02-27 08:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This question has been asked 21359824357486593746 times on yahoo!
Ok... lets break this down.
You like him
You think he likes you (maybe you know he does).
You are a coward and can't ask him out
You haven't gone on a date yet because you can't get over this fear.
Well... this is the problem that most guys face everyday when we are expected to ask women out! HA! On a serious note, the simple answer is that you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. Some guys will shy away from a gal that is aggresive, others may need it. I've done my share of dating, and I'm still quite shy. I dont ask as many women out as I wish I could, which means I REALLY appreciate it when a gal initiates that first step.... even if its something as simple as expressing interest in "getting together sometime".
2007-02-27 17:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy, Ask him.
Believe me, as a guy, there is no greater thrill then that confirmation that a girl you're looking at likes you too.
It's also a great ego boost to guys to have been asked, and it's just stigma's that keep women from asking most of the time anyway.
one final point is this... If you don't ask, you may lose out on someone really great.
He may be shy, or afraid of you turning him down, or any number of things, but if you don't make the move, you might miss the chance of a life time.
A.
2007-02-27 16:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by A Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its best to ask, and have him say no, than to not ask, and have the oppurtunity slip by. Can you live with not knowing if it would have worked out or not? It's quite painful to have that lingering feeling of regret over something you could have changed.
2007-02-27 16:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by crotchetybob 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have the guts to do it, then hope that he'll do it for you...and risk losing him forever. or, u could just pull the same cute move that i did in order to get my bf. tell him you like a guy (enter description of him here) and you want to be more than friends but you're too shy to ask him, and you really just wish he'd do it for you.
2007-02-27 16:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if u both like each other...than u should go for it becuase if u dont then he might giveup on u and go for sumone else....he problary really likes you hes just afriad to ask you.
2007-02-27 16:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by **Annie~ Poo** 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him because if u ask him it tells him u like him and if u both like each other he will say yes but make sure u know him because u wouldnt want to get hurt. good luck honey
2007-02-27 16:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by michael m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes just like that the other person said it's not like your asking him to kill someone for you! So go up and get over yourself!
2007-02-27 16:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, so i asked my friend to do it for me and i would meet him somewhere in our school so we could know each other better, so his friends would be all over him.
2007-02-27 18:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you should wait until he asks you. Whatever you don't go up to him and demand a date. That is way to impulsive. Jeeze
2007-02-27 16:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋