why do some men like virgins so much i men do you like someone that is experinced or a virgin. Because some boys or men think that virgins are scared to do it, but some of us virgins arent we are some thimes a little wild and ready just waiting for the right guy to share it with. We dont want to be a hit and run.
2007-02-27 08:27:19 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is only my opinion on why men like virgins (my opinions are based on men that I have spoken to) because the women will not have anything to compare the sexual experience to because them men are lousy in bed.
2007-02-27 08:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's an easy one. guys like girls with experience (this is only general) and in this day and age mos don;t care, but at the same time it's appealing for them to have virgins for one or all of these reasons. they like the idea of her purity, she is untouched by any other man, that's a reason why many societies insist that women dont have sex until t hey are married. well some more than insist some demand.
another reason is that men like the thought of being a teacher. i had an older man for a little while ( even though i wasn't a virgin i was still new to the game) and he loved the idea that he was my "teacher" so to speak, he taught me about his body and about mine, cause let me tell you honey it's a lot easier for men than it is for women to really enjoy sex. so when you finally do it, don't worry if it's not what you thought. there's hope it took me a while to start enjoying it but that;s a whole other topic. the best thing for a virgin is to find a guy who really cares about you, even though it'll be weird make it as special as possible and preferably with a guy who knows where everything is. so there ya go, i think i answered more than ur question but oh well. if u have any questions don't hesitate to ask me.
ta ta
but the most important thing is to listen to yourself, if ur not comfortable then don't do it. i am not into one night stands i have never done them and never will they just don't feel right to me. don't ever let anyone rush you or pressure you ok, it's all about you ok...good luck
2007-02-27 16:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Angel R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not too sure on how much of a question this really is. But I can say this. Many men may think that being with a virgin is really appealing because 1. They're the first ones to take the woman's virginity and 2. It makes the man feel superior because he was the first one inside of you. They then try to mark their territory and claim that you can't let nobody else have sex with you because of the simple fact that they were inside of you first.
2007-02-27 16:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Just Some Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could look at it like this. If you had enough money to buy any car you wanted. Would you want a new car that is all your's that no one else has had? Or a used car? I guess everyone wants that chance of a brand new car. That feeling of it never being touched. Like some women like to be the first girl a man has ever fallen in love with. Being the one and only girl he has ever felt that way about. It's just wanting to be above all the rest. Being the first puts you in that unforgettable category. You know what I mean?
2007-02-27 16:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like to be the only one that you have slept with . It means you are not loose. We are sexual creatures and sex is a wonderful thing. However, some people use sex to get attention, to resolve insecurity issues or just plain use their bodies for the wrong reasons. I would say guys really only want to take the ones seriously that haven't slept around too much. Being a sleaze really doesn't put a whole lot of respect out there. Not deep down anyway. Just stay true and believe in your higher power.
2007-02-27 16:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 'real' reason a guy wants to be with a virgin is because they have no one to compare them to...
that way if he really sucks, then the girl won't know. they will just think that it's wonderful to have had someone give them some luvins'
any man knows that a woman who has been a little experienced but not over used, is the way to go. that way they know what to do, how to do it. and are still willing to learn..
2007-02-27 16:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like to know that they are sexual masters and want to be remembered for their sex. So having sex with a virgin is appealing simply for the fact that she will always remember him, and at the time its the best sex! Men who focus on virgins are probably sexually inadequate or insecure, a man whose good in the bedroom will want a more expierenced woman, if she remembers him it means much more!
2007-02-27 16:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by rrrrhhhhinsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy, i married a virgin. but some guys are players and want to see how far they can get. I think for guy's it's a challenge that make it worth it.
2007-02-27 16:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, an experinced lady would be my best choise! So let's say this: Support our non virgins!
2007-02-27 16:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Blacksmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "virgin" thing does not phase me. Just give me a sexy lady with a great mind and personality...that's all I am looking for.
2007-02-27 16:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Shauny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋