2007-02-27 08:11:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Just let nature take its course. Be gentle and kiss alot. Let things just happen don't stress over it. No that she loves you and you love her so its going to be great because of that alone.
2007-03-05 11:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by JELLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I should answer this, but I will assume your wedding nite is special for you both....seems to be rare these days. With that in
mind you will make a big mistake if you don't get some idea what is in the mind of your fiance'....what you don't want is her disappointed.....and most girls...at least inexperienced ones.....have some romantic ideas in their head....you can talk a little about it ahead of time and get a picture of what she thinks is romantic.
If you're in a hotel...plan ahead a little and tell those in charge to do some romantic things..like deliver champagne when you arrive, have flowers in the room, etc....make it as romantic as you can.....she will love it!
My other advice is to think about her and her needs first...be sensitive and loving and everything else will come naturally.
2007-03-03 16:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is right about taking it easy on the drinks. And it is a fairly common thing for you to be exhausted after a long reception and all that dancing and partying. Go to the room and just relax and talk and have fun. If you're just too worn out don't worry about it. It's not like you have only this one night. You have the rest of your lives. Relax. Trust me it will happen.
2007-02-28 11:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by hjking315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No booze at the reception for you or your bride. Maybe one toast, but that's it. Just relax. Be careful of any "practical jokes" people like to play on newlyweds. You don't "have to" "do it" on your wedding night. You can, but it's not "requred". You may find that you wuld rather get a good night's sleep, and "do it" in the morning, or you may wake up in the night, wanting to "do it". Just relax, you are sharing your love for each other. Sex is the ultimate way of physically expressing your love for your spouse. It might help you to realize that you and your spouse can do this basically anytime, for many years to come. Congrats! Take care, and relax.
2007-02-27 08:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by planning a romantic experience
Have rose petals placed on the bed ahead of time
Start by running a bath for her....you can either give her a nice sensual bath or allow her some alone time.
greet her with a towel. Purchase a vanilla or lavendar scented oil (bath and body works) and give her a nice long full body massage....touching her in this way will help you relax too...
Have a bottle of wine...have no more than two glasses...this will help you both relax.
We women don't like for you to rush us...we are like crock pots.
After the massage is finished...turn her over...look into her eyes stroke her hair, begin with soft kisses, to her lips, eyes, nose, neck, etc.
Hopefully, you already know how she feels about oral sex? Whether she likes it or not...if not, you need to find out how she feels about it.
When she is ready for you to delve in, take it slow, don't become a jack rabbit...slow long strokes, kiss her often...vary the speeds during the act.
Good luck!
2007-03-04 05:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read and study about the anatomy of the human reproductive organs. Learn what they look like and how they work. Do not depend on any kind of porno as your education at this point.
After you have studied for a while, if you are still nervous, talk to your future mate about your nervousness as soon as possible.
Find a nice, quiet, romantic place to talk, where there will be no interruptions.
Start off with:
_________(name, pet name) I want our honeymoon night to be really special.
I want it to be so special, that I'm making myself nervous about it. Will you talk with me for a while and tell me what you think will make our honeymoon special.
If your mates eyes start to gleam...take mental notes. Once your mate shares with you...I think you will free to share also.
You don't have to spill your guts and tell every little nervous thought you have in your head. In the future there will be much time to discuss what is on your mind. This discovery process is one of the most beautiful things in a relationship, ENJOY.
Hint: Don't take for grand-it what your mate might know or think.
Study to show yourself approved.
2007-02-27 08:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by holermyname 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. There are many videos for couples to help be intimate with each other. It isn't just about sex but they can help you there also. Learning what feels good to one another will keep everything intimate. Just keep in mind that this is going to be your wife. You can have as much fun with each other than you can even imagine. Just do a lil research with your wife and learn what the two of you like the best and profect it. Have fun drink a lil and enjoy each other...that is the main point!
2007-03-07 04:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by DePressed08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember how much you love your wife, and I am pretty sure it will be natural and comfortable. Nervousness could be used in a good way. Be open with her, tell her how you are feeling mabey she will take the lead then on the wedding night.
2007-03-06 23:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by laceywat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't plan some elaborate evening that you cannot live up to. You know your lady and her likes and dislikes. Keep it quiet, gentle, and personal, pull up your self-confidence, treat her like a queen, and you'll do just fine. May the Creator bless you both on your very special day! Congratulations! Annie
2007-03-07 08:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am being very honest here - do not,repeat, do not let her get too drunk, you will both regret it later down the road, as this happened to myself and my ex wife and about 15 other friends and co workers i know, and that means don't get to drunk yourself, as it will ruin everything,same goes for future in laws and your own family,as those embarrassments last longer - just some helpful hints from a guy who has seen it from hell and back!
2007-02-27 08:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both are virgins, so don't worry. You will both be nervous. Have a drink (not drinks) to help calm you both down a little. Remember, practice makes perfect. Good luck.
2007-03-04 19:26:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋