What is wrong with him/me?

Question

i have been with my X for 3 years off and on and the summer before last we broke up because of parental problems and a month later he was with someone else..well last summer (after ignoring me for 9 months) his girl friend broke up with him and he came back to me, well like an idiot i forgave him....we have been together since about a month ago...well now he has a new girl friend...whatever...well about two weeks ago he wrote me a letter telling me that he missed me and wanted to fix things (but slowly)so I agreed. Well the next day at school he acts like he hates me and won't talk to me...then the next day we talk and he says that he's with his new girl and he just wants to be friends..that's fine with me...so I agreed to that too. Well I got over even though I would do anything in the world for this boy and I go through the day upset but glad that we are still friends....well the next day he says that he hates me and never wants to see me again...after 3 f'in years he hates me when I never did anything to him...he's telling people that I cheated on him (and I would NEVER in my life do that)and he said that he wanted me to leave him alone and I have..no letters..no phone calls..nothing!! But he is telling everybody that I still call him and write him letters....what the hell is his problem..I have done everything he has asked me to and that still isn't good enough...what the hell is his problem? I know that when his girl friend breaks up with him he will come back to me and I don't want him, but I need to know someone's opinion on why he is being a complete and total *** for no reason we were fine a few weeks ago and I haven't said or done anything to make him mad since..i promise..

Answer 1

He obviously has issues and is really immature (as all guys are). Just ignore what he is saying and when you hear anything about it just brush it off, its when you react that people start to think its the truth. He cant be alone and so comes to you coz he knows you will take him back. But do like you say and be strong and just leave him. There are other guys out there who are much nicer. Try going for slightly (SLIGHTLY) older guys coz they are a little more (not by much) maturer.