why is it i cant find anyone in their early 20's round here
2007-02-27 07:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by animal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i'm talking round my area i just split up from my boyfriend 4 months ago and i really miss having a boyfriend
thank you for your advice x
2007-02-27 07:56:00 · update #1
i live in london
2007-02-27 08:35:06 · update #2
It shouldnt be too hard i mean its freakin London, not exactly a small country town!! maybe your standards are too high? or maybe subconsciously your NOT over your ex bf tehrefore not actually looking for a new one yet. if your looking for early 20s im guessing ur early 20's, just go to a few local pubs, bars, clubs, jazz clubs with some toher friends (preferrably chicks). go out for coffee or have lunch at cafes. go shopping or just places like bookstores or clothes stores, parks or themeparks. best place to meet guys, music festivals or to live bands =)
my honest advice is: dont get a new boyfriend yet, sounds like your just on the rebound as you say "i miss having a boyfriend around", not you miss the BOYFRIEND but jsut having a guy friend there like that.. dont be too quick in finding another partner, maybe its good to have some time off, having a bf isnt everything no matter what peope tell you, you are yourself without having some guy on ur shoulder.
2007-02-27 10:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true, if u want something or are waiting around for something u rarely get it. Always happens with me and guys, I find someone wanting me when I give up looking! I think u should concentrate on other things, get more active, do lots of fun stuff and that'll take ur mind off the whole issue and it won't seem like such a big thing and i guarantee that when u least expect it, someone will come ur way! ;)
2007-02-27 08:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, its one of those things we call sods law, but we never find love when we are looking for it. It always seems to get ya when you least expect it.
When you say you can't find anyone in their early 20's round here do you mean on yahoo or round by where you live.
Cause if you mean yahoo, chances are he will live a million miles away from you anyways.
If you mean round by where you live perhaps you should try just letting your hair down and enjoying yourself and enjoying life and just see what happens cause when you ain't trying so hard to find it you tend to get a better quality guy too.
You kinda end up with the loosers when you go looking for em!
Good luck though girl, Hope love eventually finds you !!! XX
2007-02-27 07:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by 2talkornot2talk 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Possibly because you're looking. Bizarrely, it's like waiting for the phone to ring - you need to busy yourself first!
Here's a great book to lift your spirits called the Between Boyfriends Book. You can buy it on amazon and also read inside the book first before you buy. http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/0752865250?ie=UTF8&tag=topofthehoffs-21&linkCode=as2&camp=1634&creative=6738&creativeASIN=0752865250
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-27 07:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fill up your diary with lots of interesting activities. Men hate women who just sit around waiting for them - makes it less of a challenge. If you are a busy girloid, the men will flock to you!
2007-02-27 07:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Around where?? the 'net?? you can't be looking very hard try the chat rooms on Yahoo if you can read at 100 Mph.
2007-02-27 07:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by richiesown 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You'll find eventually. Until that magical moment, try to enjoy your life and improve every aspect of your life.
I mean, things will never be worse! Everyday you grow older and you learn something.
2007-02-27 07:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just be patient...are u in college, thats a good place to start, or get some of ur friends and go to a bar, who knows, maybe ull find that special someone.
2007-02-27 07:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by im confused! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe try not to look so hard, maybe he'll come when you least expect it! Good Luck XxX
2007-02-27 16:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by *Evie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same position but im 18 and cant find anyone y is it so hard
2007-02-27 08:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋