I might be leaving to go to a boarding school & I dont want to leave my boyfriend ive waited 3 years to be with him & now i dont want to throw this away after were finally together wht do i do???!!!???
HELP!! i love him & dont want to leave him!
2007-02-27 07:36:07 · 13 answers · asked by lilash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not always,
You have to both be serious about this though. I'm in a long distance relationship and me and my girlfriend will be moving in together at our own place later this year. But i'm 18 and it doesn't sound like you are.
So my only advice is this WILL be the most tough and horrible experience you have to go through honestly. I'm still going through it and everyday i miss my girlfriend. But if you think of the future and have visits about once every month it can work
If you're strong, honest to each other and TRUST each other, you can do it, you'll be in it together and only both of you can pull through.
Good luck,
Keep in touch with me if you like,
It's nice having people in the same situation.,
Matt
2007-02-27 07:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by matty_boy1989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how strong the relationship is. If two people were together and one of them had to leave the country for a particular reason(school, work, etc.) and this person was coming back, sure, there would be no reason to not stay together. After all, its only for a time. Also, before that person leaves, the two of them should sit down and talk about what is expected of the other person. Are you going to see other people in the mean time? Stuff like that.
2007-02-27 15:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, no, not all long distance relationships fail. It depends on how often you see eachother and how strongly you and him feel about eachother. Trust me, the distance enhances your relationship because when you'll be able to see him, everything will be much more exciting and you won't want to waste a minute. I'm in one right now, i see my boyfriend once a month and the distance and the wait kills us both, but when you see eachother you see it's worth it and you'll fall in love with him all over again. The passion and desire level is also going to rise. Good luck, hope this helps!
2007-02-27 15:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all long distance relations are going to fail. Dont listen to people who say it always fails. It depends on 2 people in the relationship to keep it alive. Stay in good touch with ur BF, keep reminding him of ur love, send him gifts....write to him..etc. And keep making plans to meet up often. Long distance relations can always work. It depends on how much both love each other and are willing to sacrifice a lil bit and be patient.
2007-02-27 15:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then dont leave him!!! ofcourse long-distance realtioships work!.. im in one.... sure theres that whole cliche.. "long distance relationships never work"... you know what?/... no relationships a bed of roses but being in a long didstance realtionship is no different!.. if you love each other you'll make it work.. ive been with my man for almost two years now.. and weve been in a long distance realshinship pretty much from the start and we'll keep it going for one more year till i get out of college and i can move to hope fully a uni by him or him by me.. but weve made it work.. throughout the tough times.. no-1 sed it was easy but we do it for us because of the love we have.. trust me you'll work through it :)
2007-02-27 15:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they do not always fail, the distance really does not have a lot to do with it, people make relationships fail. You are feeling this way now but allow yourself time to get your education and become independent, you may be surprised at how your priorities may change after you first take care of yourself.
2007-02-27 15:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work. I've been with my boyfriend for two years and it's been long distance from the start. In about 6 months we should be in the same city (finally!)
If you love him and he loves you enough to try and make it work, it can. It takes a lot of commitment, though.
2007-02-27 15:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long distance relationship right now, we live 3 hours apart. It's not to hard, you just have to keep in contact alot, and tuly love each other, so you can make a long distance relationship work.
2007-02-27 15:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by erin <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority do. Relationships need the physical. If I had a bad day, my fiance gives me a kiss, a hug and a massage. He wants to see the expression on my face when he gives me a surprise. We share moments of intimacy, romance and playfulness. Being physical matters. You have a decision to make.
2007-02-27 15:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found in most cases it's very hard and many don't work. its something you both really have to work at to make it work. can't find school closer together ,it would make it a whole lot better. if not then you both need to do a lot of writing,phone calls and visiting when you can, etc,etc. you both need to want it to make it work. good luck.
2007-02-27 15:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by skip3800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋