my gfs nan is ill plus her step dad and mother are on the verge of splitting up and she is saying that she is finding it difficult to find time for me at the moment and im mising her like mad. what can i do to support her ?? or help her ???
2007-02-27 07:34:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Simple. Just be there for her. She'll appreciate that.
2007-02-27 07:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chris B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you'll be there for her, know it's difficult but she is needing to make sometime for herself and you. If her nan needs her care almost all the time this is not right as if no other family members she would be entitled to some form of care. Also hard on her that her mum and stepfather are on the verge of splitting up but that shouldn't stop her from seeing you.
2007-02-27 10:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She certainly is loaded with lifes issues at present. I would give her the space to enableher to get a better handle on the situation. Explain that you will give her the space and that you are never more than a phone call away should she need to speak toyou. Also you could post a few 'thinking of you cards' perhaps every other day for a week or two - let her know you are serious about how you feel. After say two weeks, I would review the situation...hold on in their for yourself also.
2007-02-27 07:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gf going thro a hard time but just give her some space for the time being. however not too much she needs to no u care about her treat her with her favourite things chocolate, flowers or a photo frame with sweet pictures of both of u together sharing good fun times. something to remind her of your relationship which would remind her of u her bf.
2007-02-27 08:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by 3 is my lucky number 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her by being a support in every way possible make she knows she is special and loved. send her liitle tokens texts and love note of how u r missing her. Make a CD OF her favourite song and send it in the post or drop it by her yard
2007-02-27 08:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by jazzyandyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to help her take care of her aunt. Take her out to eat after an exhausting day. Be understanding and do not pressure her too much.
2007-02-27 07:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay bud i went through the same but my mum wasnt ill it was a sudden death she was only 42 i had a gf at the time but she wouldnt give me space and we ended up spliten through it just give ya girl space but be there for her when she needs you she will come runnen to you
2007-02-27 09:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay for and take her to see her nan, you get to spend time with her on the journey and you can talk to her and tell her you are there for her and have time for her
2007-02-27 07:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sally F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you do get to see her, treat her well, take her out and make sure that at the end of the day you put a smile on her face
2007-03-03 05:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know you will be there for her and help her out as much as you can also tell her if she feels she needs to talk to someone she can trust in you to listen good luck hope all works out for you both
2007-02-27 07:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know that you are there for her. Take her out to eat, send her flowers, call her just to say "hi", ect.
2007-02-27 09:29:07 · answer #11 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋