Why does men cheat? I mean they say they love and they want to be with you but they cheat. I have been in a 7 year relationship, he cheated, but he loves me so much(he say) he even want to move in together.He even say that he want to get married to me. But he cheats. What does that mean?
2007-02-27 07:33:38 · 8 answers · asked by sweetmocha07031984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been dating for 7 yrs, and still haven't moved in together?
Sounds like you both have commitment issues. Neither of you has taken a step towards making it a manogomous relationship so he didn't cheat, he just got some different.
That sounds heartless but it's true. if you aren't even living together after 7 yrs of seeing each other, you arent in a real relationship, you are still just casually dating.
2007-02-27 07:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by no1bucsfan26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Why do men cheat". It is the exact same question as to "Why do women cheat". Its both sexes, and if one does cheat, its only because he or she is bored, or wants to experience something new. Think about it. You spend 10 yrs talking or being with someone. Even if you have unconditional love for someone, you are still going to want to lets say "chat" with different people from time to time. The human body yearns to crave something and be consistent with it. This doesn't apply to everybody, just some people.
2007-02-27 07:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by M-O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it save yourself the heartache and pain and lookig stupid in the process. If he cheats on you now and you are not living together and not married things will not change. You may love him but he can't love you or respect you if he continues to treat you the way he does.I can't really give you an answer on why tehy cheat because I don't do it myself. But to avoid any further pain you should just let it go now before more time passes. Good luck on finding someone that will love and respect you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-02-27 07:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, he obviously obviously obviiously doesn't love you if he has cheated on you so much. He's been using you as a crutch since your too clingy (7 years? that's too long to be cheated on) And not all men cheat. Your just stuck with a guy who can use you.
2007-02-27 07:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with someone for 7 years that's been cheating on you? Well, if you let him get away with it he'll keep doing it. Personally, I'd leave him. He doesn't think much of you, and frankly YOU don't think much of you either.
Also, I don't know any men that have cheated - only women. So let's not make this a "men" thing.
2007-02-27 07:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Spyder Woman 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It means you need to stay away.
Has he been upfront about seeing other women? If not, then you can only assume he's gonna keep doing that. If he won't talk to you about why he's doing that, then you need to cut him off. Obviously, you want a monogamous relationship. You'll only get hurt worse if you stay thinking he's gonna change.
Don't marry him. Don't move in with him. It's only gonna get worse. Let him go.
2007-02-27 07:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women cheat?the problem with women is that you think it's okay for you to cheat and afterwards you pretend you did nothing wrong,but If your husbands cheat it's death for them,my advice stop picking on men.
2007-02-27 09:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT HE IS A F-ING CHEATER...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-27 08:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋