This guy says that he likes me alot, that I am everything he is looking for but he never calls. If we talk on the phone at all I am always the one that calls him. If he likes me so much why won't he call? If anyon eoucld shed any light on this that would be greatly appriciated.
2007-02-27 07:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I made it seem like I call him alot. I don't I always leave a week or so between phone calls to see if he calls me. But you all are probably right, I won't call him unless he calls first I guess.
2007-02-27 08:06:50 · update #1
You're everything he's looking for in a bed buddy. He doesn't want to get to know you. He just wants to ****!
2007-02-27 07:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by walter_krby 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it could be a couple things. He may not be that into you or he could be nervous to take the initiative. From my experience (I am 36 so have had a lot of it) most men (not all, but most) really don't like talking on the phone. I'm not sure how old you two are or what the situation is but I would refrain from calling him for 2 or 3 days (I know this will be hard) and if he doesn't call you then you have your answer! Sorry sweety, if it is meant to be then you will know.
2007-02-27 15:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop calling this guy all of the time, I don't think guys like girls who call all of the time, that will wear on any relationship. Give him some room, if he likes you, he'll call you, even if it's just once. Guys are not generally phone people, unless it's something really important. Don't wrap yourself up too deeply into this guy, call him about once a week, he'll wonder why you're not calling him on a regular basis, and that may prompt him to at least call once.
2007-02-27 15:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by daviskingskid 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he dislikes talking on the phone?
I really don't like talking on the phone. I would rather talk in person or not talk at all than talk on the phone for any length of time.
The most I like to do is arrange a time and place to meet or ask a quick question.
2007-02-27 15:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by kclark747 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl dont call him. That's how guys stop calling girls. If you show interest and try to call them all the time they would lose interest on you. It's hard I know, Ive been in the same situation you are right now. But it's better not to call them. Wait till he calls. Play hard to get. I know you like him a lot but you have to do it. Don't show interest.
2007-02-27 15:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, first..... don't call him anymore. if he wants a date and he knows your number then he'll call you.. never chase after a guy like that.. they tend to run the other way. if he's interested then he will call..try to focus on something else besides this guy.
2007-02-27 15:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he might be shy.. i'm having the same problem. but i like him a lot and i'm the who who calls but it equals out cuz he calls some times to.
2007-02-27 15:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Spalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, from a guy, He is just nervous, he probably does like you. Do something to show your love like hug him. I will raise his confidence
2007-02-27 15:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like he is all talk! I wouldn't waste your time! Find someone who will give you the time of day! Good luck!
2007-02-27 15:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lolabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested in you or he's just scared. Also you just a POA to him, and like the others said you didn't "Put out"
2007-02-27 15:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Capo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋