I'm really depress right now, I'm afriad of hurting myself , I hate my life , I feel like a loser, I feel that I'm not worth liveing, I dont have a job, I dont have a lisence to drive, I suck at school, I have no one to talk to , My family is falling apart and they never understand me, and have time for me, only my perfect sister is 16 and I'm 19, I dont feel that I deserve to live or have a boyfriend who loves me with all his heart, and who want's me to marry him and have his kids, why did god make me a loser, and why did he let my life be like this, I ask him to take me home, I have no one I could trust. to tell how I feel, and I have no money to get help, please help me.
2007-02-27 07:31:33 · 20 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I feel worthless, and I hate everything about me , ever since I was a kid, all my family hates each other , and they fight , and all there is fighting, and my best only friend back stabed me.
2007-02-27 07:33:24 · update #1
I always do what god said, why is he being so mean to me.
2007-02-27 07:34:31 · update #2
My best friend commit suide , and I cant let it go.
2007-02-27 07:45:04 · update #3
OK hon just take it easy and take a deep breath. Life at times does $uck and bad things happen to good people.
Get help. Find a youth group, support group a trusted therapist to talk to.
You are NOT alone young teens even in later years have more to deal with than our parents did with sex, drugs, cliques, the pressure on woman to be thin and perfect it is very hard.
God does not make losers and you are not a loser either, you are just a person going though a tough time and it will pass it always does.
I am twice your age and I remember how 19 was very hard for me, I could not hold a job at that time I did not get my license until I was in my early 20s and I was in a very unhealthy and abusive relationship and God is his mercy and love got me out of a horrible situation.
I am praying for you don't give up you still have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-02-27 08:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Please know that your life is very important and you are very important no matter how you feel. God loves you very much and he thinks about you and talks about you all the time believe it or not. He even counts how many hairs you have on your head he cares so much. He is invisible but he is right there with you every second of every day. You have to know this so you can start loving yourself. You are a beautiful person with all the potential in the world. You have to stop thinking about yourself in a negative way because our thoughts and words are very powerful. The bible says as a person thinks, that's how a person is going to be. So think positive things about yourself, you are no loser but a winner.
Just ask Jesus to forgive you of your sins and for him to save you and change your life and I promise he will. He'll give you a better life, friends, change your family, and a boyfriend too. If God didn't have something for you to do or learn on earth then he would have let you die, but you are still alive so he has plans for you. If you have any money at all you must pay 10% of it to God through a church or ministry like CBN or something then you must pay money on top of that called offerings and God will multiply those offerings. If you will do this with the little money you have God will keep multiplying money back to you over and over again.
Know that everyone has a hard life and nobody has it easy. The bible says we must all have our share of sorrows. But the good news is that Jesus came to earth and died and was resurrected so that our lives could be full of joy and happiness. He says you can cast all you cares and worries on him so you won't have to worry about anything. Talk to him and tell him about everything going on in your life even though he already knows, but he is waiting for each of us to ask him for help. Give your life over to him and he will miraculously change it for you.
2007-02-27 15:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My parents divorced at a young age....my 1st husband cheated on me with my best friend...the career I wanted and went to school 4 years for didn't work-out for me. I was left with what I felt was nothing. No job, no husband, no car....then it all turned around. Now today I am happily married to a wonderful man, have 3 kids and 2 wonderful friends I wouldn't trade for anything. Things do get better. Hang in there. It's not worth ending it now. Some day when you look into the face of your child you will be so happy you didn't make such a permanent decision.
2007-02-27 15:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Terrie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi Short Baby,
Wow, your post just broke my heart. While there is much that I don't know, I do know that GOd is not mad at you and He does not hate you. He love you and it grieves Him to know that you are hurting so. I don't understand why He doesn't reveal Himslef to us the way we want Him to when we are hurting, but I do know that when I have gone through times of pain and difficulty I have always been able to look back and see that He was there with me the whole time.
Let me say that if you really think that you are ging to hurt yourself, you need to call 911 and get some professional help on hte way. You are much too precious to do something to yourself that is irreversable.
I would encourage you to seek out a good church family that will love on you. Unfortunately, not all churches are equal, so don't settle for the first one you go to unless it really meets your needs.
2007-02-27 15:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Rickster 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I struggle with depression as well, and as a Christian, turn to God for help. I read my bible, and God seems to put verses in my face that help me deal with my issues. As a Pastor's Daughter, I suggest, praying to God and asking him to put the smile on your face every morning. God is your best friend. He will never desert you and he has you here on earth for a reason. you may not know what that reason is, but don't let suicidul thoughts pull you down. God didn't make you a loser, he made you the way he wanted you to be. He puts trials in your life to bring you closer to him. Just remember this. The rest of the world will let you down, but God won't because he loves you.
2007-02-27 15:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Call one of these numbers, ASAP: 1-800-784-2433. 1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255. Now.
Depression has nothing to do with religion, it's a medical condition, and it sounds very much like that's why you are suffering from.
The short version of why you should call is the story about the man stranded on the roof of his house during a flood. The National Guard comes by with a boat, but the man won't get in because he has faith that God won't let him drown. The boat leaves, and he drowns. When he gets to Heaven, he demands to know why God didn't answer his prayer and save him. God says, "I sent you a boat!"
Call the numbers, honey, please.
2007-02-27 15:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Jeremiah 29:11-13
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.
2007-02-27 15:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by JohnC 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Look at the story of Job. He endured so much more than you....he had THREE friends turn away from him, and his wife, and all his children died, and he got robbed of a lot of his posessions, AND....
he still made it out w/ God!
Just trust in God, and read Job's story. I hope you find the strength you need in Christ.
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
- Philippians 4:13
God bless you.
And remember, God promised us salvation...an easy life wasn't a part of it at all. You have brothers and sisters in Christ, I am one of them, and I'll be praying for you. Hang in there.
2007-02-27 15:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by ac28 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have far to many issues to consider this place as any sort of decent help. Your best bet is to look inside the front cover of your phone book, and look for the Crisis Center or Suicide Prevention phone number. Give it a call and talk to one of their counselors.
2007-02-27 15:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Wee Bit Naughty 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Shorty, You had the courage to post what you are going through. Please use this same courage to call a suicide prevention line in your area. You are a worthwhile person but you are going through a very difficult time right now. You need to reach out for some help immediately. Please do this now.
edit: I am a Christian but what you need has nothing to do with religion. There is a post below mine that has phone numbers you can call. Please do it now.
2007-02-27 15:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. E 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋