please help me?

Question

my dad got a new gf i think they've been together almost a year however me and her can not get a long at all we are always fighting i hate the way she treats her kids and she uses my dad i ain't talking about yelling fighting i'm talking about fist fighting i want to get a long with her but its like my dad has to be up her a@@ or she gets mad what should i do

Answer 1

To get your dad's attention, give him a card, on a just because basis. Tell him you love him and appreciate him for what he does for you. What ever relationship, he has between him and his girlfriend is their business. But the type of relationship you and your father have, IS your business. Let him know that you will always love him even when he is having issues with his girlfriend. But explain to him that it does upsets you to see him go through the fights with his girlfriend. When you come to him in this way, he will always want to protect you, even from his girlfriend.

Answer 2

With situations like this just be observant they can't continue on like this forever one is due to give out most likely pops. Do express your feelings though but don't contribute to the ammunition of anything...just be cool...it'll do whats meant in the long run. I've been there and look at us now that g/f is G.O.N.E.

Answer 3

I would talk to your dad and tell him how you feel, but respect the dicission he chooses. just be there for your dad when he needs you. and if he can't see what she is doing eventually he will. just be strong and no one can tell you to like her or not. but be nice, and try to keep busy with friends.

Answer 4

i know i could understand u..i think that u should try ur best to get along with her just act klike u don't really know how mean she is just act realy nice with her and then she will reallize her mistake and wil be nice to everyone.