when did you find "the one" how old was you? im 22 and still no boyfriend. i have had boyfriends but im still single for over 3 years . what is wrong with me? why cant i find a good man ?
2007-02-27 07:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by JenN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, God does everything in his time. He has a purpose for you, and maybe the time is not right yet for "the one". God may have other things he wants you to focus on right now besides marriage.
How will you know when "the one" comes along? You won't even have to ask- you'll just know it in your heart, without a doubt!
Also, it's perfectly normal at your age to be single- in fact, most people prefer to be single throughout their 20's. There's nothing wrong with you- you're a normal 22 year old! Most people do not get married until they reach their 30's! But, if it's something that you feel you need NOW to make your life complete, try praying to God. He listens, but as you pray don't forget that God has a special plan for your life, so you've gotta trust him to do everything in HIS time!
2007-02-27 07:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I was married before, I didn't find my 'one and only' until I was 46 years old ... and I wasn't even LOOKING FOR a man, then. I made 'him' my 'best friend' and he made me his because we both 'loved to talk' and were both of 'higher intelligence' than the other people who lived in our building, and we 'pretended to go together' because neither of us was 'interested in anything romantic' at that time in our lives' and neither of us wanted to have to 'fight people off'. I know that it's 'weird' but I think that our 'friendship' and the fact that 'neither of us was interested in romance' when we met that makes our marriage so GOOD now ... ten years of marriage and we are definitely married 'forever and beyond' ... and we are still 'best friends' and still 'talk all the time' about EVERYTHING ... silly, world shaking, etc.
Try 'not looking ' for 'a man to love' and just 'make friends' with as many people as you can ... because maybe your 'best friend' will be a 'man' who can become the 'one' in your life, too.
2007-02-27 07:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kno when u find the one becuz u are alike and that person isnt selfish mean stupid HE HAS 2 hav SOME of ur characteristic
Nothing is wrong with you cuz I DONT HAVE A BOYFREND yet im 17 soooooooo men are hard to find u have 2 find that special one
2007-02-27 07:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperado girls have hard time looking for boyfriend,so don't be one.
2007-02-27 07:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know where he'll turn up, if at all. Nothing is ever certain.
2007-02-27 07:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS HOW I KNOW I'VE FOUND THE "ONE", YOUNG LOVE PEOPLE IT IS THERE......ANYWAY PLEASE READ...... YOU WILL FIND A GOOD MAN.. YOU JUST HAVE TO LET HIM COME TO YOU...
WELL BECAUSE WE HAVE........TRUST, RESPECT, LOVE, HONESTY, SINCERITY, COMMUNICATION, DEVOTION, ect. AND SUCH ARE THE KEY TO A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP..... I DIDNT JUST DATE TO DATE I LET HIM COME TO ME...... I FOUND SOMEONE THAT I COULD CONSIDER SPENDING THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH... I KNOW PEOPLE SAY YOU HAVE TO TEST THE WATER OR WHATEVER ALL THAT **** IS I FIRST JUST TRIED TO PICK THE BEST ONE AND GO AROUND THAT... HE TREATS ME LIKE I AM A "QUEEN" LITERALLY... I MEAN HE DOESNT SLAVE FOR ME I CAN GET MY LAZY *** UP SOMETIMES TOO BUT HE DOES THINGS FOR ME...... CALLS ME UP FOR NO REASON AT WHATEVER TIME IT IS JUST TO TALK AND TELL ME HE LOVES ME..... HOLDS ME THE WAY HE KNOWS I LIKE TO BE HELD....KISSED...TALKED TO... THINGS LIKE THAT..SPENDS HOURS ON THE PHONE WITH ME AND EVEN IF IT IS DEAD SILENT HE APPRECIATES BEING ON THE PHONE WITH ME AT THAT MOMENT...... THINKS ABOUT ME CONSTANTLY..... TALKS TO ME HE'S NOT AFRAID TO TALK TO ME... I AM HIS GIRLFRIEND HE IMAGINES ME AS ONE OF HIS HOMEBOYS!!!!! WHATEVER HE CAN TELL THEM HE TELLS ME.. HE CONFIDES IN ME MAKING ME FEEL LIKE HE CAN TRUST ME.... HE KEEPS NO SECRETS.. DOESNT LOOK AT OTHER GIRLS. EVEN IF IT DOESNT MEAN ANYTHING THE ONLY GIRL HE IS ME....(BECAUSE HE KNOWS IF HE WAS LOOKING AT OTHER GIRLS I'D ASK HIM IF HE WANTS HER AND TELL HIM TO GO HEAD ON CAUSE I DONT PLAY THAT... HE DOESNT TAKE THE CHANCE) HE LOVES AND RESPECTS ME.. HE NEVER TRIES TO UPSET ME AND IF HE NOTICES I AM UPSET HE APOLOGIZES!!! HE APOLOGIZES FOR EVERYTHING!!!!! EVEN IF ITS SOMETHING DUMB AND I DONT KNOW WHAT HE IS APOLOGIZING FOR.... AND HE NEVER YELLS AT ME......(I MYSELF DONT CARE CAUSE I'LL YELL WITH HIM BUT HE STILL DOESNT) AND HE GIVES ME THOSE LOOKS THAT HE KNOWS I LIKE.... HE KEEPS ME HAPPY KEEPS ME INTERESTED( HE STILL TAKES CARE OF HIMSELF KEEPS HIMSELF LOOKING GOOD AND ALL) AND KEEPS ME LAUGHING.... HE ALWAYS SAYS SWEET STUFF TO ME AND ALWAYS LOOKS OUT FOR ME AND MAKES SURE I AM OK... HE COMMUNICATES WITH ME AND LISTENS TO ME HE UNDERSTANDS ME.. AND HE MAKES SURE HE IS READY TO BUST A CAP IN A DUDES *** WHEN OTHER GUYS TRY TO HOLLA AT ME.. HE DONT JUST SIT THERE AND BE LIKE "OH" HE STANDS UP FOR HIS GIRL AND IS READY TO GO REASSURING ME THAT HE WILL PROTECT ME IN ANY EVENT.. AND ###1 AS I SAID BEFORE HE TREATS HIS GIRLFREIND AS A "QUEEN" HIS "QUEEN" AND THE ONLY "QUEEN"......(MAYBE BESIDES HIS MOTHER....BUT STILL THATS A DIFFERENT RELATION...)
2007-02-27 08:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋