when you hint that things are not going to work out but they still demand a "closure"?
2007-02-27 07:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is very rude nobody should do that to anybody
2007-02-27 07:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by barroom_babyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id' say yes if it is someone you were in a relationship with. However, the word "closure" means different things to different people. Your may think by hinting at things, that's closure enough. The other person may want you to stand on a podium, announce you're breaking things off, and admit you're a loser for doing so. Try to find out what the other person wants in terms of "closure", and be willing to satisfy that request as best you can. It's the least you can do if you're ending a relationship.
2007-02-27 15:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by lepnat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be a little more clear so that there will be closure. Just because you are dropping hints does not mean they are getting it.
2007-02-27 15:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by tresls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hint, let that person know. Some people need it to move on, and its the right thing to do. You might hurt that person, but just be honest about how you feel and then ignore them. Sometimes the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do.
2007-02-27 15:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont HINT! Get straight to the point- tell her its over, thats the ultimate closure!!!!
2007-02-27 15:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need reassurance.If you are unable to verbalize your true feelings then later it will be there to try again.Tell her/him how you
feel then ignoring issue is okay.I don't think it's right or fair to leave anyone hanging.Scream if you must but don't be afraid of
confrontation.It necessary in life situations.Hint is the key word
don't hint say I am not interested....
2007-02-27 15:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to give closure that way you can rid of that person cause they know it's over.
2007-02-27 15:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an easy way out but its probably the worst way to go about breaking up with the person
2007-02-27 15:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by ddcass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thank that if you told that person that you don't think that's it going to work out and you don't wont to be with them anymore. And they still call you and making you fell uncomfortable and they are grillin you. Than i don't see nothing wrong with ignoring that person.
2007-02-27 15:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by KK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Dont hint. Be direct. Then if they still dont get it.. then you can ignore them.
2007-02-27 15:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by kitttykitti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell them it's not going to work out and they need to move on. leave it at that. You're only being honest, even though they seem to be living in dreamland.
2007-02-27 15:09:26 · answer #11 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋