he's the baby of the family and has 3 older sisters and his mom and they do everything for him and the sad part is he expects it they are not allowing him to grow up he either calls them everyday or they call him which means they know all his business and our business i believe in being close to your family but to me this is to extreme it really gets on my nerves i'm close to my family to but i give them their space i think this is weird and i can't handle much more any advice
2007-02-27 07:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by donna k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tough! Not healthy! He will never grow up if they continue this and then he will also expect you to pick up where they left off. Good luck!
2007-02-27 07:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar relationship 2 years ago. He was the baby of the family (he was 26 at the time) and had 2 older sisters who did everything for him - like find him an apartment, a car, get him job interviews...etc. It got to the point where we were at the grocery store and I was super annoyed...he said "what kind of soap do I like??" and that was the last straw! How do you not know what kind of soap you like?????
I dumped him that night, and I've NEVER regreted that decision!
I tried talking with his sisters and mom, but they were content with caring for him, even if it ruined every relationship he ever had.
2007-02-27 07:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no way I could be in a relationship with anyone so dependent. Honestly, I don't think he will change much. 36 is not old, but he's definately set in his ways by now. Pretty soon he will expect YOU to take care of everything too.
2007-02-27 07:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by fun_purple_beach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him my sister just went threw 3 years of this and tryed to talk to him but he was too use to his family doing it all for him so she left him so see him as a mommas boy and leave it at that
once a mommas boy always a mommas boy isent that the old saying leave you will always be 3rd on his list so choose someone who will put you 1 on his list
2007-02-27 07:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by family fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get gone...this won't change anytime soon as it has been going on since he was born. I don't even know you and I know you deserve better. I'm afraid this boy will never 'man up'.
2007-02-27 07:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by nin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋