What would you think if your girlfriend said this?

Question

"I trust you. Besides, if you cheat on me, I'll just cheat on you."

by the way people, please don't assume i am so desperate or stupid as to date a girl like this. It's not about a personal problem, so while I appreciate all the "good luck", it's not necessary.

Answer 1

I would think that well fair is fair. i mean, she isn't saying that she is going to cheat on you. If it bothers you, talk to her and find out what it was all about. Relationships only work with communication, ask her not us! But I guess she is saying if you cheat on me it's over, or she will just even the score. I don't think it means any harm.

Answer 2

It means that she trusts you but if you cross her watch out. Trust to a woman is like viginity, once it's gone you can't get it back :( The reason she said that she would cheat back would be to show you in some way how it feels for someone to do that to you. In the end she may not do that is she respects herself enough. Before you think of cheating, let her go first.

Answer 3

just a warning, she is a little worried that you are contemplating, have, maybe you have a history of cheating or whatever, or she has been cheated on. You can be cheated on and know that you don't want it to happen again and you tend to put it out there, so to speak, not a good thing to put out there, it just shows her vulnerability. She is worried you will cheat, insecure with your relationship. I have been cheated on and I thought about it a couple times, but when it came down to it, I couldn't inflict that pain on someone even after knowing he did it to me. I moved on, grieved and feel I am a better person for it!

Answer 4

I would have to question how stable the relationship really was. Two wrongs don't make a right and for her to be saying what she'd do before anything even happens is a bit odd. If someone truly trusts their mate they shouldn't have to talk about what would happen if there was cheating.

Answer 5

You better not cheat or she will to, then you all will break up over trust issues a formation of manipulation in essence don't cheat
don't want no problems won't be no problems. Just play by the rules or get with a chick who rules you would like to follow.

Good Luck honey.

Answer 6

I think she is basically calling it like she sees it I will treat you the way you treat me I think that is only fair in a relationship you give what you get you get what you give so she is telling you in her own way she trusts you till you give her a reason not too but if you turn your back on her by cheating she will have no respect or trust for you anymore

Answer 7

What she should have said was that before you make a decision about cheating stop and ask yourself "how you would feel if she were to do the same?". If it would hurt you to know that she cheated than you probably don't want to open that can.

Answer 8

I'd wonder if she values herself or her sexuality if she thinks "cheating revenge" is an appropriate way to solve her problems. I think I'd worry about her accusing you of cheating followed by her own cheating. I'd be more secure with a person who adamantly swore they'd never cheat- no matter what.

Answer 9

She is just trying to scare you. If she loves you and you cheat, she will probably start having more sex to keep you from the streets. Thats what they have always did when I use to cheat.

Answer 10

If she thinks like that I would dump her, because it sound like she just waiting for you to cheat so she can do it too. Two wrongs don't make a right.