If someone is married in the military can they live in two different places?
there's this guy i met on the marine base and we've been seeing each other for awhile and there's this girl who keeps stalking me on the base where i work at and she will say i'm his wife and then when i try to talk to her she's backs out and say "nevermind u can date him and be with him it's okay" or she will say he's married and has two kids with me and follow me around the base in her car and pass by about five times a day just looking around at my job. this situation is driving me crazy he says that she's an ex girlfriend and she's lying...she's says that he's lying and then when i try to talk again she back out and say "don't worry about it i'm telling u for the second time that u can be with him and i wish u two the best." she says they live in military housing but then he introduced me to his roomate and they live about 50 miles from the base when she says that he lives a few blocks away from the base. Can he be in the military & live in two places at the same time? no rude comm
2007-02-27 06:38:35 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
You sound like a reasonable person. But there is way too much Jerry Springer like happenings with this couple. I would back away from this guy as fast as you can. If you can't even get a straight answer and proof out of this man, lord knows what other mess you will end up with. Good luck and run like hell.
2007-02-27 06:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, many times dual military are stationed at seperate bases. the only requirement for spousal co location is to be stationed within 300 miles of each other. Now as to the rest of the details, who knows. She could be a psycho ex GF, he could be married to her on paper but not in practice(the military does NOT recognize a legal seperation) or they could both be yanking your chain.
Many times, Single Servicemembers are given a barracks room on base, BUT they can choose, to live out in town . If they are authorized to do so, he would lose his barracks room and receive Single BAH. if he is NOT authorized to do so, the barracks room would still be his and he would have to maintain it for inspections and whatnot, and he would not get a housing allowance., in essance, maitaining two residences.
2007-02-27 08:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will u have to look at this way for her to be on the base that says allot to me he must have gave her a base sticker or something because u can't get on a base with out. one or he has to sign her in so she could telling the truth. and yes they can live in two separate places my mom dad did all the time my dad was stationed in great lakes and he lived on base in the barracks while me and my mom lived 3 hours away this also happened while my dad was stationed in Cuba we stayed in Pensacola NAS while he was on the waiting list to get us a house. but they could be separated or getting a divorce or something like that. and that why she is living on base and him off but if she does it again walk down to the gate and ask them how she is getting on the base. and if she is stalking u why haven't u called the base police and let them deal with it?
2007-02-27 06:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by ryan s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's freaky. You can live as many places as you want. Considering one's a buddies place and the other military housing it's probably not very expensive either. If the wife says it's cool, he should stop lying to you. Or you need to figure it out.
2007-02-27 06:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many red flags in this relationship already. I'm not sure how old you are....and I guess it really doesn't matter....but when you think about what you really want in a relationship.....is this it??????? Do you really want things to start off this way??? It's not good for you to have to put up with this sort of behavior already. Try to look at it this way...what type of person is he to have been dating this type of woman? It's easy for him to sit back on your arm and say she's nuts.....but you weren't around during this relationship. Think about it. I'm sorry if you have feelings for this man, but long term, it sounds as if it's time to move on.
Good Luck....you deserve better.
2007-02-27 07:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he cant. time to dump this guy. hes trouble. the roommate 50 some miles away is a cover up most guys dont live that far from the base. hes married stay away from him
2007-02-27 07:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suspose he COULD, but on a Military paycheck it would stretch out money very thinny to be living in two places.
2007-02-27 06:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if he can afford it. Otherwise, he is probably staying at that chick's place. Why are you bothering with such dramatics?
2007-02-27 06:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by ropman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can live in 2 different places,if they dont live together he/she will get an additional like 800.00 on their check for the other ones living expenses.
2007-02-27 06:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by marines_sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋