im 15 in high school ok ive been having a cruch on this boy and i think he likes me but im shy and i think he is shy we talk sometimes but we never get around to actually talking about going out ive wrote him letters and stuff like that when i give him letters he puts a smile on his face so what does that tell you? no he hasnt wrote back yet but i understand why or at least i think i do. we flirt in class on some days.i also write him poems im trynna convince myself to talk to him in person but dont know exactly what to say so plzz help me!!!!!!
2007-02-27 06:30:12 · 8 answers · asked by {~~~} LUV YA ALWAYZ & $ EVA{~~~} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guyz will match. just give him some time.
2007-02-27 06:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, don't be anxious. All good things come to those who wait. Get calm and peaceful inside. Think of how wonderful a person you are, how beautiful you are and how confident you are. You have no reason to be afraid. Then when you calm down just go talk to him. Ask him if he would like to go see a movie with you or something. Be like "Are you doing anything this weekend... have you seen Spiderman 3, I'm going to check it out this Saturday and I'd like it very much if you came along" look at him flertaciously and smile then see where he goes from there. Most likely he will take you up on it or postpone for another time. Guys rarely turn down girls for dates, so you don't have anything to worry about...lol
2007-02-27 06:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by SOGWAP37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did back in tha day... ask him to hang out this next weekend outside of school (let him know it's just as friends though... ya don't wanna scare him)... go bowling, skating, shoot pool, something. But make sure it's with a group of friends. Once ya'll start hanging out ouside of school it will get easier for you to talk to him and vice versa... then after a couple weeks of "hanging out" let him know (if he hasn't let you know already) that you are interested in more that just friends and see how it goes... it worked for me... my guy was shy too so I took initiative and it worked!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-27 06:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to hang out with you first, if he doesnt want to hang out with you, then he probably doesnt like you. If he accepts make sure he brings friends and u bring friends so it isnt awkward, then it will come naturally.
2007-02-27 06:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r writing poems about him then that is kinda wierd... back up a little and let him come to you. and to find out wat he thinks about you....get a couple big mouthed people to tell him you like him and then he will know and u dont have to be the one to tell him...... ;). lol good luck
2007-02-27 06:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by that one girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what his interests are and talk about those. movies, sports, whatever. Small talk will develope into deeper conversations
2007-02-27 06:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound really nice give the guy time
u sound perfect for each other
he will come around
2007-02-27 06:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by johnc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i wish i could help you out but im the same way .....
2007-02-27 06:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋