There are these two guys who are both nice, kind ,romantic and funny, and they are about the same age too. Guy A is very talkative and is also very easy to talk to. Guy B is kinda quiet and is more stable financially. Who would you prefer to date and get in a long-term relationship with?
2007-02-27 06:29:29 · 26 answers · asked by s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both of them are brainy.
2007-02-27 06:33:15 · update #1
I would go for B, the stability matters so much in the long run!
2007-02-27 06:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The person I am most *attracted* to.
Being nice and kind is great and a lovely foundation, but it's not enough for me. Also, I dont really look at the bank balance when choosing a partner. Going by my history, I have a feeling I'd be more attracted to the quiet one (altho he'll drive me up the wall later on with his silence..:). In my experience, quiet ones are more sincere. I'd miss easy conversation and lots of openness which I'd get with the talkative one...but it's okay.
2007-02-27 06:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to every relationship. You have to choose who you can talk to better and communicate better with. You said Guy B is financially stable. Are you wanting that or is that just a bonus? All I can say is that life is hard. Would you rather like to have someone that you can talk to and be happy or someone that has the money and unhappy?
2007-02-27 06:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jessika J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for guy A. i have been in a lot of relationships with guys that aren't very talkative and it never really works out. Being able to comfortably talk is a lot more important than most people think.
2007-02-27 06:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would chose Guy A but that is just me. Because if you can a easy relationship with someone who you have alot in common with and who is easier to talk to, you can enjoy your relationship more and possibly find a future spose in this person. But if you need someone who has fincially dependent then you should go with Guy B.
2007-02-27 06:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by babygirlseck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably Guy A. What would I need with a guy's financial stability? I can get my own. But do they have to be romantic? I don't want that!
2007-02-27 06:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy A. Conversation is a key to a relationship and the last thing you want is long awkward silences.
2007-02-27 06:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one could you see yourself living with longer? Take the annoying stuff from both of them... now, which one would end up bugging the hell out of you and which one do you think it wouldn't bother you after say 10 years... whichever one you can see yourself with in 10 years and not going completely crazy with all those little annoying habits
2007-02-27 06:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy A.
I love a guy who is very easy to talk to.
2007-02-27 06:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whomever I'm most attracted to. If they're both so great, just go with who you think you'll stay attracted to. I once dated the kindest, sweetest man ever, but wasn't attracted to him.
Five years later I'm married to someone else -- and he's a cutie!
2007-02-27 06:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋