If the love of your life asks you to wait 15 years before you both can come together, would you?

Question

The reason being very genuine.

And he/she is not playing around.

Answer 1

Hell no.

15 years?! Damn.

I'd be passing up opportunities with guys who would want to REALLY be with me.... and sooner than that.

How would you know they're really the one ANYWAYS?

So let's say you actually wait 15 years. Well, you may find out that he's already been with someone else. Or let's see you two DO get together, but doesn't work out in the end. ALL THAT WAIT FOR NOTHING!!

Answer 2

Be realistic. The correct and only answer is NO.

Why? Simple. Just think about your own life 15 years ago. Close your eyes, and imagine yourself 15 years ago, now picture all the events that you can remember that happened around that time… you might take an entire day to think of all of them, and those are only the first ones that comes to your mind.

You should be by now feeling a little bit like you were 15 years younger. Well, now keep on thinking about things that happened, your life, but now go through time and advance little by little until you get to the present again. If you concentrate a little bit, you could spend a week thinking about it and still more will come up to your mind.

Now tell me, you are in love, and you want to be with someone, but that person is not gonna be available for 15 years… are you willing to be miserable for that long? Just compare it to what you just remembered, and tell me if you would wait that long.

Unless there is something wrong with you, your answer is going to be NO too.

Long distance relations don’t work unless they see each other at least once or twice a week, like on weekends. And still you risk it to fail. We humans are made on a way that we require to be physically with someone to be able to love and take care of that person. If you don’t keep contact, physical I mean and not just phone or e-mail, that feeling will start to fade.

Otherwise, we wouldn’t cry when a friend or relative dies, right?

We can wait, but for a reasonable time only. It could be months, or a couple of years. But After that, chances are that it will be a waste of time… and a waste of your life.

Answer 3

15 years? What do you do in the mean time? Sounds usless to wait 15 years if you love each other anf are ready to be together. I can understand if you are a 5 year old or some where in that range of age but if you are a mature adult and got everything together or are in the process of getting it together why should you wait?

Answer 4

Yes. I'm 26 and that would mean I would be 41 when we would be together. I plan on living a lot longer from then on so I would totally wait. Until then I would feel comforted that my "princes would come" and just be a playboy for the next 15 years.

Answer 5

That would depend on why the love of my life feels the need to keep be in the background for 15 years. You could get hit by a bus tomorrow, love someone who wants to be with you now.

Answer 6

Nope i would not want to waste the best years of my life waiting for somebody to make up his mind weather to marry me or not . And 15 years is a long time! Don't waste your time waiting ...you will miss out on many great things in your life!

Answer 7

Nope. Why would I waste 15 years of my life waiting around for some guy/girl to make up their mind if they want to be with me? Senseless and selfish on their part to ask that of a person.

Answer 8

If he asked me to wait 15 years he wouldn't be the love of my life.

Answer 9

Depends on why the long waiting. If there is a very valuable reason then,why not. He is the love of your life.

Answer 10

Oh no, that's out of the question. That is an unrealistic request. 15 months maybe, but never 15 years. How can someone be so selfish to ask that of another person?