So i have a friend and this freind is only in town once in awhile he travels alot with the army...when hes gone were barely talk. he never responds to emails, text messages, calls, the works...Now he blames it on always being busy but he never seems to busy to answer everyone else back..with that said, when he is home we can't keep our hands off each other but then he leave again and it all starts over...so i ask? ami indeed being used or is there a slight possibility that he acctually is just to busy when he's gone?
2007-02-27 06:00:50 · 23 answers · asked by annamaria9521 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in the military for 6 yrs and yes, you are being used. There is always access to the internet, and definitely, if he's answering other people back, then he had time to answer you too -- if he wanted. Sad to say, but some guys bragged about having different girls in different places, and I'm not talking out of experience, because I was friends & worked with a lot of guys that did. You already know how it is, that when he's gone, you don't exist in his world, and when he's in town, it's all physical, so you either need to take it as it is or cut him off and find someone that's going to be there for you.
2007-02-27 06:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in another relationship wherever he goes. That's my opinion. Guys who diss you on calls when they are away are not interested in talking to you becuase they are more interested in who they are with at the time.
I work 6 days a week most days, 12 hours a day. When a woman I'm seeing (sexually) even only part time, calls me, I definately answer the phone, return the email, and/or text message.
he only wants you for the sex and nothing else. So if you're ok with that, then OK. If not, find you another man who you can get crazy with in the sack. Then when he returns to town, let him know you wanted more than just sex. And you found that with someone else.
2007-02-27 14:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I don't think he's 'just too busy'. I know that might not be what you'd like to hear, but you said it yourself "but he never seems too busy to answer everyone else back". If you're okay with the occasional visits than maybe this could work for now. But if you're thinking you want more, I'm not sure this guy is interested.
2007-02-27 14:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even puttin up with this??? He knows he can always come back to you and get watever he wants and leave and not talk to u..he doesnt care @ all...its like you are just sittin there wasting ur time while he goes and has a life..dont email.text him or call him when he is gone..go out and have fun meet a new guy..and when he come back act like you could care less..and dont mess with him anymore..he only wants you for sex?
2007-02-27 14:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are using each other to me. But, what I think you want to know...He is perfectly fine with the way things are (free sex when he's in town). He doesn't want anything more from you, or he WOULD make the time. If you are waiting/hoping for a more significant relationship than casual sex, I'm afraid you are out of luck.
I'm sorry if ths hurts you, but I'm tellin' it like it is.
2007-02-27 14:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by I See You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in the army so he is busy. my father is in the military and when he is overseas, he never responds to emails because he does not have access. I would not take the not talking when he's gone very seriously.
2007-02-27 14:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
100% being used. If he wanted to commit he would call, he would e-mail, he would go out of his way to let you know he cares. No guy is EVER too busy for the girl he cares about. Don't let him play u like that girl
2007-02-27 14:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by ...Melissa... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you.......
Probably has a different girl in every city he travels to. I did when I was in the military...and the other guys there will encourage him to cheat on you as well so he more then likely is... Find someone closer to home.
2007-02-27 14:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say yeah sorry but if he has time to talk to everyone else and not you then he is no good and you are just a sex toy that is all sorry but get over him and move on!!!
2007-02-27 14:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are being used. i would end it there before you really get hurt by this guy. i to was in the military your not always to busy. get out of it while you can....
2007-02-27 14:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋