my boyfreind never comes round,always a last minute thing pops up grrrrrrrrrrr......
2007-02-27 05:58:29 · 20 answers · asked by debbie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he tries to pop round, tell him something has just cropped up and nip out to see someone. See how he feels. You are worth more than this. Why should you be a last minute girl. Do you really want to be with someone who would rather be else where? I think he's trying to give you a message. Give it to him first!
2007-02-27 06:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by JJ88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's frustrating, waiting by the phone, and planning to spend the afternoon with him, and he stands you up. I know what you are going through. Ask him why is he always busy. Is it making money, providing a life for you, or just hanging out with his friends? Has the relationship taken a serious turn lately and he's backing away? Or is he just not planning time with you? Have a talk with him, and say you need more.
2007-02-27 06:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, a relationship is a two way thing not just something to fill up the empty space. i know how this feel as i think my exgirlfriend saw me this was and i didnt like it at all. if someone want to be with you then it shouldnt have to be like a hobby or something there life should include you a lot of the time not to fill in the gaps
2007-02-27 09:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is taking you for a desperate woman. When you spend all your time chasing a man, he will spend all his time running away. You need to be cool, and not contact him for a couple of weeks, give him the chance to miss you, and wonder why he has lost your attention, then he'll come back with his tail between his legs
2007-02-27 07:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not as dedicated as you would like. If he only wants to hang out with you when its convienent for him.. move on and find somone who will kiss the ground u walk on and spend every minute you want to with you.
Everygirl should be treated like a princess by the one they love... and never stood up
2007-02-27 06:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by ...Melissa... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear that, there is nothing worse than getting all exited that there coming around and then they let you down at the last minute, you need to be strong and tell him that you need to make plans if he is not coming around, that should get them thinking, good luck
2007-02-27 06:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u wasting ur time on someone who doesnt wanna spend time with u? dump him and move on! he needs to grow up if he thinks he can treat people like this. it mite wake him up into realising he wants to b with u but i dont hold out much hope. dump him and leave him alone, do not go back if he asks u to.
2007-02-27 06:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyffiend.
You said it yourself!
He never comes around.
Something always comes up that's more important than you!!!!
2007-02-27 06:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Nibbles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he is not!
You should be his priority! He came round to see you, nothing else should be more important!
Tell him how you feel, and how much it annoys you!
Good Luck x
2007-02-27 06:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isn't worth it, I mean come on he is only there when he wants something......right or wrong??? Just let him go unless that's all you want. Good luck :)
2007-02-27 06:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋