when to get married?

Question

im in luv vit a guy, we faced a lot of problems as our parents dint accept our love jus because of 1 reason-caste, but now after a year long trouble both our parents ve accepted, he wants to marry me as early as possible, max vit in 6 months, but i dont wan2 until next july, coz my internship gets over only den,he s quite understanding bt not happy, what do i do,plz help

Answer 1

I think when everything is going fine you shld get married. you can do your internship even after that ofcourse you do let him know about it before marriage. mine too was a love marriage and i had a year to go for my graduation i completed it after getting married and also did msc after tht. so it up to you.

Answer 2

When both of you got green signal already with both the parents what is the hurry!!!

You better finish your internship successfully as you rightly planned. It should not be a problem for the present day girls to cheer up the guys. Therefore, you explain to him logically and friendly way, when he is in good moods and he will be okay and become happy ever again.

A delayed pleasure is a redoubled pleasure. All the Best.

Answer 3

It is good that you finish your internship...or is there a possiblity of you doing your internship after marriage ..Will your guy let u do this..?If you r in relationship more than 2 years..And he is in a position to provide you.. that means financially ok .. to just provide for your basic needs u can go ahead for marriage..All the best for ur marriage life to be..

Answer 4

If u take my advice please dont marry until u get settled with your career i mean financially sound.. Early days of ur wedlock will fly away in joy but if u r not settled and you have to hunt for jobs after marraige and u dnt get a suitable one u will frustate and it will create a prob with ur married life, so first arrange everything then marry

Answer 5

.U may get engaged immediately and fix a date for the marriage after your internship.

Answer 6

On apprehension of committing unwed pre/extra marital sexual activities, one should get married forthwith. Waiting further for any reason is improper.
All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam in clearly written unambiguous words. In Islam, unwed voluntary sexual intercourse is also a great sin punishable continuously in hell & heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
In India there is minimum age restriction for marriage (not for unwed sexual activities), 18+ for girls and 21+ for boys.
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.

However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.

Answer 7

Forget him. Move on and find smbdy else

Answer 8

ask to wait you