That happen to my like 4 years ago by accident, I can't explain but it happen. You know, something that happen that wasn't suppose to happen. But I never told him or anything, but I can tell he knew and I could tell he liked me too. But I got over it, even after me and the person I was with are divorced I never tried to talk to his friend.
But why does that happen, you know its wrong...but it happens. You don't want to be with that person, you are just curious. Why, Why, Why...I'm so glad the man I'm with now friends aren't that cute. lol
WHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHY???
2007-02-27 05:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gooooooood girl!!! I know what you mean!!!
that has happened to me plenty of times but its been, when I know my friend is basically locked down for life ( marriage) and I cant pinpoint it, but I start getting feelings for him and its like whaaat?? that is not cool! why! why! and you cant do anything about it without being called a homewreaker or something. sometimes you gotta just hold it down, and move on
2007-02-27 05:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by moon_chyld03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this happened to me when i was much younger and after my bf and i broke up i met "the friend" at a disco one night and we enjoyed dancing together all night (and I mean really suggestive dancing) and this was something we never got to do before. Although nothing else happened, just being able to dance with him that night sort of "consummated the crush" and when i met him again many months later i did not feel anything for him but friendship.
Now i know i would not have a crush on any friend of my man's because i am wiser and so much more mature in the way i handle relationships.
2007-02-27 14:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by ann t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its natural to be attracted to someone who is really attractive even if you are married or in a serious relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. Now if you take it to the next level and act on it, then you would be at fault. As an adult you have to know right from wrong, and be able to control yourself. Thats what makes us different from animals.
2007-02-27 13:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by bella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I don't know. I've never met my bf's best friend but I probably will in March or April. I'm pretty excited, too, my bf talks about him all the time. right now I'm only in love w/ my bf....wow....
2007-02-27 13:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but this makes no sense
2007-02-27 14:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋