ok my bf malike has been good we been goin out since last july.But now some girl comin up to him sayin i like you he said i dont care if u like me.I wanna be yo friend. But now he told her he got a girl (me).He takes her 2 da store when she needs it.She asks him 2 go out 2 eat.Sometimes he goes ,sometimes he doesnt.Then she keep callin him and he tells his sis to tell her he aint there.Now he told her he got a girl and she wanna fight me.I will fight her.What should i do about him.Is he flirtin wit her? Are they becoming intimate?Please help.
2007-02-27 05:19:27 · 20 answers · asked by mybabyboymalike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is not with the girl, it is with your boyfriend. He has to make a decision. If it were me, I would just tell the other girl she can have him! It's not right for her to try to get your boyfriend, but she's not the one to worry about.
2007-02-27 05:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by tmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is up with the fighting thing? Is that how a girl proves she is the best connection for a boy? Are we talking animals in the wild here or people with feelings and ideas who like to make each other laugh and enjoy the same kind of fun?
You need to ask your guy if he is getting ready to play the field. If so, for him, what is not working so well between you any more? Maybe this girl wants to get more physical with him than you do. Can be a problem, but you, when you are young, gotta look to you.
Bottom line...if he is playing you then you don't have to fight this girl. If he says he cares for you, -he- should set her straight and you don't have to fight her. And you can always tell her, "my fighting you is not going to change how it is with him."
Do her a favor, find her her own BF.
2007-02-27 05:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this girl doesn't take a hint when he says he has a girl. You don't have to use your fists to prove it. Just talk to her, and tell her to back off. No, he's not cheating on you. He stood up for the relationship. If he was going to cheat on you with this girl, he wouldn't have told her about you. Now come on, treat him like he deserves, and forget about the girl.
2007-02-27 05:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, real talk. Tell your boyfriend stop being nice to her. He obviously doesn't like her, he's just not being mean to her. But, she's crossed the line, tell that byotch to leave your man alone, matter fact tell your boyfriend to tell that byotch to leave him alone. And if you do fight her, know that it's not because you're fighting over him (don't ever fight over a man, he either wants you or he doesn't) but because she disrespected you.
2007-02-27 05:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by tt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you have much to worry about. ur man sounds pretty into you and only you. sure he'll do her a favor and drive her somewhere once in a while, but he isn't going on dates with her and from what you said, it seems like most of the time he'd rather avoid taking her anywhere. so don't worry about her. she doesn't have a shot with this guy. he seems too crazy bout u.
2007-02-27 05:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they are becoming intimate - it sounds like your man is trying to avoid her and just wants to be with you. She, on the other hand, sounds like a ***** and is definitely flirting with him and trying to steal him away. Don't fight her if you don't have to, though, it will just make you look immature and jealous. Tell your man he shouldn't be hanging out with this little trick when she so clearly wants to steal him away.
2007-02-27 05:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Beauty Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's real simple to fight a person, but very hard to take back all the pain both physical,and emotional. you should relax and ask him (B.F) to treat you with more respect. Also don't lie to him about how you really feel.
2007-02-27 05:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your story, there's no way to tell if he's cheating or not, but if that girl tries to hurt you, kick her a** or call 911. Don't get into trouble over any stupidity. Good Luck.
2007-02-27 05:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's in to him and I would'nt stand for "just friends". I f he cares about you he'll kick her to the curb. As for fighting her, i'd avoid it. But if she won't quit, well you'll have to put her in her place. That's your man!
2007-02-27 05:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is testing the waters, he engage this therefore you should talk to him about this.......don't fight another person for him, is either you or her......don't waste time behind some.
2007-02-27 05:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋