Ladies. My fiance is mad at me because I went on a night in the
town with one of my good buddies from college who come in from
Florida for a weekend instead of spending time with her on our
anniversary. We dated for three years and she so treasures the
first time we met. Just because I wanted to skip this moment for
once why am I the bad guy? I buy her flowers and I show how
much I appreciate her everyday and I am not talking not just in
bed. I dont get it. I don't see myself as selfish, but I feel she should
be understanding in this situation. Is treating woman like queen
not enough?
2007-02-27 05:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by tsmalls5 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, even though you treat her well (from your perspective) you can NEVER skip out on your lady on your anniversary. The woman looks forward to the anniversary every year - skipping out her to hang with the buddy is just a bad idea. Even though you show her affection and love every day is not a good reason to skip quality time together on you anniversary. An anniversary is also holds sentimental value, you skipping out makes her think you could give a rats a$$ about your anniversary.
2007-02-27 05:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was it so hard to ask her along with your friend? She probably thought you were being a naughty boy without her there which shows a lack of caring on your part which makes us think about what else you might not care about . Being it was your anniversary you should have showed that you cared more than any other day. not the everyday kind of caring, but the flowers,dinner,this is our day in history kind of caring.
be smart say your sorry .believe me this will not make up for you caring about the friend hanging out on the anniversary when it should have been you and her hanging out and celebrating .
If she loves you she will forgive you only because she knows that you show her everyday that you care it just hurt that you did not want to spend the quality time on your anniversary with her.
I'm probably confusing you ,would you like it if on your birthday we wanted to hang out with our mothers???
Hope this helped?
2007-02-27 13:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by nobodytotalkabout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she happen to find a roll of one's in the laundry??
What does she know about the friend? Does she know about wild times of the two of you? Maybe she has other motives for being upset with you. What time did you roll in?? If you weren't up to anything you weren't supposed to be then why didn't you invite her along. You are in a different stage in your life and is your friend not willing to accept that?
You are asking her not to be selfish but you are being selfish in your actions.
You need to start thinking as a relationship person if that is what you want and not about having fun reliving the old times.
2007-02-27 13:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's already used to you being her *****, why should she stop at your anniversary? Women like to test men, and your whining indicates to me that you're gonna fail her test, and your marriage will most likely end up on the rocks. It'll take time of course, but if you don't learn how to be a man, the situation looks pretty hopeless.
2007-02-27 13:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops, you f@cked up.
You never, never, ever skip out on a woman on your anniversary.
You don't have sex with your college buddy. You have sex with your woman. Get your priorities straight, or sleep on the goddamn couch.
2007-02-27 13:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anniversaries are important - you had best learn that now.
2007-02-27 13:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give her gift take her to the cinema take her to the Beach give her a kiss you know
2007-02-27 13:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by king frsco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋