Why are girls like this?

Question

I've noticed, if you got $$$ or a car, or anything.., seems there are evil women out there who will "pretend" they like you. What I mean by pretend, is they will go all out to "prove" they "love" you till they have successfully wrangled your $$$ or car from you.

I don't understand. Women like that are totally evil, and if all women are like that, I hope I NEVER get married. If there aren't any women that actually care for the man, instead of the things they can take from him, I hope I am never with another woman.

I just wanted to ask, are all women like this? I don't mind giving my all, or course, but what hurts is when you give your all, and THEY were only playing (to get what you had).

Are all women this way? Most of them? Do good women exist who value morals & the guy they are with anymore?

Answer 1

There are good women out there, and I am one of the many! By "value morals" I abstain from sex until marriage, I don't cheat or use guys, I don't like guys for what they have--instead I like them for who they are, I don't lie to my bf, I keep up good grades, etc, etc. Don't worry you will find someone worthy of you.

Answer 2

No not all women are this way...I won't even let male friends pay for anything that I do/eat/get. It all depends on the female. There are a lot of gold diggers out there that give all the other decent females a bad name. You just have to keep your income or money on the down low (don't say how much you get) or play it off like your mom bought you the car, that way women will either love or hate you if they're gold diggers (for example, they see you wearing a nice suit, a limo and your taking her to the most expensive place in the 30 mile radius, you explain you bought the suit for a wedding, thought you might want to wear it more then once, the limo was a gift from your mother or whoever you want it to come from and dinner, all you've eaten was hot pockets all week so a decent meal seemed nice...). If you play it off like you barely have enough to pay the bills, you'll be able to decipher who's into you for you or who's into you for the money. Good luck !!!

Answer 3

Well it's seems you've had terrible experiences. But, don't give up finding someone to love. It's not easy, I know for my own story.
Unfortunately, women had played a big role in your perception. Try to understand that this behavior comes from a simple but important matter: the pregnancy. As women, in early times, was limited to take care of the house, the children and her husband, earning money was not a natural worry. That's way, in many families was so important to get a rich husband 'cause this was the same of a better life, or a not so sacrificed life. Of course, things changed. Women work as hard as men, and most of the time more, come on, look to your mother if she works I can guarantee you that she, at night, when she gets at home, she has to cook, to clean and to care about a thousands of things. And your father? And you?
And, as women has been succeeded in their jobs, don't you think that some guys don't do the same?
Don't miss the opportunity to know nice girls having prejudice.

Answer 4

Not all women are that way! I'm not! I've been taken by men. I'd put my all in to the relationship. I was even the one who worked and paid the bills. Only to be dumped when things got rough!
I guess there are some in both men and women. Some of us just tend to attract the wrong ones.
I would have liked to had a man who would go all out for me! I don't need luxury and the finer things or a lot of money. It's the little things that mean more to me.
Just remember, there is good and bad in all walks of life! I hope you find what you're looking for.
Would you be interested in a 50 yr. old granny, overweight and disabled?

Answer 5

Not all women are like that. You can not make a conclusion like that because one woman hurts you.

On the other hand, if you do have a car or some cash to spend on dates, try not to show it off. It might attract some greedy women. You need to get to know your dates better before lending money or car to them. Decent women will not get on the car with any guy who is showing off his car. Take the subway or bus for your dates, you may be surprised what kind of women you will attract.

Have fun!

Answer 6

There are good women out there. I am one of the lucky ones and have found one of them. But you are correct, there are a lot (especially these days) who think that the world owes them and just because they have the anatomy they have that it is a ticket for them to do anything. Unfortunately society also has reinforced that thought in women.

Answer 7

those are what you call gold diggers and yes its a damm shame some women have to be like that and it makes it harder for the rest of us to find a good man who is going to trust us. you need to get to know your next girlfriend better be for you start giving her anything, maybe you should just refrain from giving away money or things until you are engaged. than you will find out if this person really loves you for you.

Answer 8

Are all women like that? Silly question, I won't answer it.
Oh, and just to set you back into reality: while there are women who will "pretend" they like you for superficial motives, while there are women who will lie to you and use you, there is not a single woman who is "totally evil". Get over yourself. People aren't that simple.

Answer 9

No, not all women are this way. There are very kind and loving women in the world. I would say most MEN are like that tho, when the situations are reversed.

Answer 10

u just need to look harder i know for fact not all girls are like that i mean yes of course u will have the few that r but most girls are loving sweet caring and will be by ur side through thick and thin but over all i think they r really nice not evil