Everytime I think I found the real deal that honest, hard working, romantic guy is a li?
2007-02-27 05:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by Kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because your dreams are a lie. For you to find a honest, hard working, romantic guy. You must be Honest, Hard Working and Romantic. Stop lying to your self and then stop lying to the guys. Start respecting your self and then respect the guys. You are NOT good or pretty enough to be a player so stop trying. You need to change the person you see in the mirror every morning then you may find a good man.
2007-02-27 05:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me tell you something.You have to go threw the a** holes before you find your true love.You may meet a guy who is romatnic but he may not have those other qualities you are looking for.Sometimes you cant be that picky with who you date.You never know you may meet someone who acts all bad and acts like he dont care but sooner or later the real him will come out.If you are the type that looks for your men...dont do that.You will only meet d**k heads who dont give a s**t about you.
Take your time and dont look for him he will come along one day.And believe me the longer you wait the better he will be.He will have those qualities you want in a man.Be patient and if you need anyone to talk to im here.
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2007-02-27 13:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by aronesha12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are making the decision that they are the "man of your dreams" too quickly...before you've really had a chance to get to know them.
Take people as they are and spend time learning about someone you date. Give them some time to show you who they are, and for them to learn who you are. Once both parties are relaxed and not on their best behavior to impress each other, is when you can better determine if they are a dream partner or a nightmare.
2007-02-27 13:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be realistic about your expectations for your dream man. Setting expectations to high so no man can match them is a sure fire way of losing every time. Perfection is not attainable for anyone. Examine you needs and hope for your dreams, find a happy medium. Good luck.
2007-02-27 13:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are creating a fantasy that eventually clashes with reality. Are you a princess? Probably not, so put your dreams aside and look at what is there.
Also, most dudes will put away the nice guy act once they feel comfortable around a girl
2007-02-27 13:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bombadil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have not found the right one yet. A lot of guys will lie just to get into your pants...... You could use some of your girfriends to help you judge your bf when you meet him. Sometimes when were alone with the ones we have feeling for it leads us to give a biased opinion of him or her. Your friends will not steer you wrong if you ask them for help. I hope that helps.
2007-02-27 13:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. because you haven't looked hard/long enough
B. because you have unrealistic expectations (there is no guy that will always conform to what women want. Men are wired differently and will not always behave the way a woman would predict)
2007-02-27 13:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really painful isnt it?but have faith and be patient.sooner or later you'll find your true soulmate.but why dont you test the new guy you met before putting all of your believe in him?
2007-02-27 13:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by shizuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are blinded by love when you meet them, you need to let things develop slowly
2007-02-27 13:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anil P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋