Well, I've been dating her for over 3 months. And, started offically our long term relationship almost a month ago. Well, she thinks that i dont love her[And, I do. ]. She told me 'If you love me, prove it'. So, I want to take her to the park, and just you know cuddle with her. Maby there's some better ideas. I just need some.
She thinks that i dont evne like her and want to break up with her. She's insecure. She's the girl for me guys. I've had many girls too[almost 10 relationships'].
Any help?
I bought her a book on art, 'cause that's what she likes.
2007-02-27 04:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh uh buddy. No way. A girl says something like that to me her *** is one with the curb.
In this life time you never have to prove nothing to anybody but yourself. That's not just a cute quote, that's a truth. If YOU find it in YOUR heart as a man to do something for her, you go ahead and do it, but if you start doing things because your woman tells you to... let me tell you son, you're heading down a path that leads straight to hell.
My advice would be to dump the girl. But I doubt you're gonna do that, so my next best advice would be to act like you didn't even notice the advice and do something to "prove" your love when YOU'RE good and ready.
2007-02-27 05:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Suggest You Buy a Bag Of Rose Petals, Cook A Nice Meal Or Order Her Favorite Food, Buy Some Scented Candles, Vanilla Is The Best Scent. Sprinkle The Rose Petals Allover The House Especially The Bedroom, And Around The Candles Placed Allover. Put On Some Nice Music, Sade Is An Excellent Choice, And Invite Her Over. Sit Down For A Nice Candlelight Dinner, And Then Just Cuddle On The Couch And Tell Her How You Feel, Even Write It Down And Read It To Her. She'll Appreciate The Fact That You Took The Time To Do That.
Buy Her A Little Gift, A Nice Box Of Chocolate Or A Small Pair Of Earrings. Include A Little Note With It.
Also To Heat Things Up Later Buy, A Bottle Of Massage Oil And Give Her A Nice Body Massage, While Whispering Sweet Words In Her Ear.
The Rest Is Up To You....Trust Me The Atmosphere Will Do The Rest!
2007-02-27 13:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by XXSEXY66XX 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Man, you should not have to prove yourself to her. You're proving yourself above and beyond by sticking around when she acts like a moron. No offense, but if you didn't even like her, then you wouldn't hang around. Tell her that. Tell her that you don't like the fact that she is continuously questioning you.
Why is she the girl for you if she can't figure out that you even LIKE her. This may be a troubling relationship for you dude. You can't prove love. Love is shown over time, like when she is sick and you take care of her, not out of obligation, but because you want to be around her regardless of how she looks, feels, or what you could catch.
Good luck...but I think you had better think real hard about why exactly you're with this girl.
2007-02-27 13:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If theres a mountian with a view of a city nearby thats a classic...that her up there at night ot just sit or during the day to have a lunch but dont go to a cheesy makeout spot or something....somewhere isolated...or pack a lunch and go for a walk along a beach but somewhere away from the city...also somewhere thats not got snakes aetc...somewhere safe but wild at the same time with nice scenery...if she likes art alot take her for a day in an art gallery...but do your homework...find out what kinda art shes into....theres loads of stuff....think of something you wouldnt normally do....like not the movies etc...
2007-02-27 13:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sean C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her everything that is going on in your life and ask her questions about hers. Comment or ask questions later referring back to something she told you. Phone or email often with cute little endearments inserted. Ask her where she would like to go and what she wants to do. Always be kind and understanding. Communication is also an ongoing process. Compromise when needed as you two work through issues together. Show her you are willing discuss and somehow resolve anything that bothers her about your relationship. Never be cruel or degrade her in any way.
2007-02-27 13:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make her dinner set up the table with candles and finish the night off with romantic sex.
2007-02-27 13:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋