It seems like every girl that I date that I find very attractive and when I feel like it's too good to be true it usually is. The girl is usually never that interested in me..Possibly I should look at girls that aren't quite as attractive? LOL hmm....:)
2007-02-27 04:52:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Italy ➔ Bologna
I don't feel like I am that shallow...I mean..Not all the girls that I find attractive are super drop dead gorgeous..Not atleast in my book..And for me ..I'm decent looking..I'm not fat or out of shape and in my own mind I feel like I'm good looking, but maybe that's not the case when other people view me..:) haha
2007-02-27 04:57:22 · update #1
Plus I don't go around rating chicks from 1-10..Not my style...I don't associate people with numbers...It seems as though if I am going to date somebody I do have to have some kind of physical attraction..That is the initial thing that starts some kind of interest in somebody of the opposite sex..Am I right?
2007-02-27 05:10:42 · update #2
No you don't have to lower your standards you just have to understand women more. You see women goes for size, the bigger the better. It's the size of your wallet. Men falls in love with the heart, women falls in love with the men wallet. it's a fact of life that women is so shallow that the wallet is all that they can relate to.
2007-02-27 05:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think anyone should "lower their standards" however keeping an openmide about someone maybe your best bet. You shouldn't look away at someone because they don't have the right body, or hair. Be kind and open hearted to everyone so you won't look away on Mrs. Right cause she could be hidden under a bad hair day or out of clean clothes. Some times girls are "too into themselfs" and they love them self so much, there is no room for you. Be leary of girls like that, no body needs them.
2007-02-27 12:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Physical attraction is very important in a relationship...but keep in mind that you aren't going to be having sex with this person all day every day....there needs to be more depth to keep a relationship going. You need to be able to converse with this person on a daily basis...without being bored...the person you date should interest you...make you want to learn more about them...and vis versa...and you also need someone you are comfortable with...none of that awkward silence stuff.
Physical attraction aka lust is what initially draws people together, but it is the mental attraction that keeps a relationship going.
2007-03-07 11:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by LoveBats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are half right. sometimes you have to have some kind of physical attraction to them but try this next time you meet a girl. find something other than her looks that that you like. something about her personality. how she walks, talks or laughs. take time and get to know her. not her looks. find something that you guys have in common other that wanting sex. try looking for love from a different angle
2007-02-27 14:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it! And I wouldn't call it lowering your standards, I would call it being less shallow. Remember that in order to get a 10, more often than not you have to be a 10 yourself!
2007-02-27 12:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Or, ask yourself if you go for these women because you KNOW they wont be interested in you? are you sabotaging yourself.
Its not about lowering your standards, whomever you date should be attractive to YOU for some reason. Whether it be their sense of humor, looks, etc. Its not about all that is on the outside. Maybe it doesnt work out because you have nothing in common with these women.
2007-02-27 12:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by stellabella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you shouldn't base your choices solely on looks.
Perhaps attractive girls are also looking for attractive boys, and therefore are not interested in you. Should they lower their standards and look for boys that aren't quite as attractive?
2007-02-27 12:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by sweetwat3rmelon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you just lower your standards? Is that something you can just turn on and off like that? There is nothing wrong with being picky and why settle? I say continue to be selective. You'll find the right one.
2007-02-27 12:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been working on that too. People judge me so I'm trying to have an open mind but now I'm not sure whether I'm real open to everything but then it depends on the overall apperance. If you're fat you better not wobble carry yourself like astick on topmodel.
2007-02-27 13:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Figure out what's driving them away. Read up on how to attract women. Ask men who are good with women. Grow from the experience, don't shrink.
2007-02-27 12:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋