2007-02-27 04:50:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. Simple as that. Sooner you realize that, the more successful and happier you'll be.
You be you. And the girls will just come naturally.
2007-02-27 04:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good listener. If she mentions something in conversation, remember it! Then bring it up a few days later. She will be impressed you were paying attention and remembered. That way you will show her the things she thinks are important are important to you too. Get interested in some of the things she is interested in so you can carry on a decent conversation with her. Once you find out what she's interested in, like movies or whatever, then you can ask her if she would like to join your for a movie. Or do something where she would have to participate with you. But don't be overbearing or clingy. Show some independence, but also show her you have a sensitive side.
2007-02-27 12:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by qt3.14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If it was meant to be, then she will in turn love you, but realize that you can't make her fall in love with you. She could fall in love with you for the little things that you do. It doesn't always have to like on the movies where you or she jumps on the other person. Friendships can turn into something more serious, such as love and when that happens, don't ruin it.
2007-02-27 13:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by bears_and_kittens 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its it's meant to happen it will, if you just be a great mate to her, maker her laugh when she is down, hug her when she is sad, always support her but be yourself always, don't try and show off girls hate that, make sure that at least once a week you do something together like dinner, or cinema, then eventually if she is going to feel anything about you she will, women quite often fall for there friends and you gotta ask yourself why? we don't want a friend constantly saying how much they like us or being too clingy, some of the best relationships grow from friendships, just be patient and thoughtful xx
2007-02-27 12:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make anyone fall in love with you.. all you can be is you. be a good friend always be there in good times and bad..when she tells you her problems look straight in her eyes, that will tell her u care. be a good listener... all i have to say is time... its either she feels it or not... dont throw money and gifts at her... then she will like u for all the wrong reasons, and u wouldnt want that kind of girl anyways... im sure one day the right one will come and u both will feel the same.
2007-02-27 12:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW i could go into huge amounts of detail and explain a way to do it but that would take ages....but im too lazy...ust be there for her, listen to her, dont always bag on her bfs just subtly remind her of somethin bad he did else when she tells you abouyt something new bad he did...but dont be forceful...sit back and leave it to her....but that only the start....theres a million things....but its like being her friend but more intimate...be careful of the border inbetween someone she loves and someone she loves to have around...
2007-02-27 12:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sean C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to tell you but you can't make anyone love you. You can be yourself around her try to do things for her to make her know how you feel and be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. This may not make her love you, but it would be the best way to know if she is interested in you romantically.
2007-02-27 12:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her your different they all the losers she has dated. But there isn't really a way to force a girl to love you. Sometimes that sort of thing isn't meant to be.
2007-02-27 12:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... you can't make someone fall in love with you. sometimes, even if you're a really awesome guy, it may not be exactly what she wants.
hate to be a downer but i did have to throw that out there... good luck.
2007-02-27 12:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by yodakelbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B really sweet and compliment her but DO NOT say u love her and dont b really clingy that freaks a lot of girls out good luck
2007-02-27 12:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by iambeautiful65 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋