Well,
Now I know that its impossible to find a girlfriend from the net (or at least for myself).
I heard so many times "you are very cute" or whatever, and the same...and the same thing everytime.
Anyway...I don't know what is wrong with me or with the girls.
And 99% from the advices of people in the forums and friends are also useless.
The only thing that gives me a hope is that out there some people have girlfriends.
Talking about me, I am 21, I have some sense of humour (believe it or not :)), I think I am not bad lookin (http://img176.imageshack.us/img176/8318/481126ec2.jpg , http://a317.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/17/l_3f422460504bffedad3d1b76928e58f4.jpg ), and I don't look for something too special. I dont get it...am I very ugly, or very stupid, or all girls are lesbians, or they are too shy?
What do you think?
2007-02-27 04:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's the approach. I myself don't go long without a guy but I try to be a very vibrant personality and get more numbers all the time. But my ex was kinda shy what started out as a friendship changed to a relationship. Take your time be a friend first. By the way I think you're hott.
2007-02-27 04:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious. You have no self image.
You assume something is "wrong" with you.
You disregard most advice given to you, assuming as long as it doesn't fit into your paradigm, it obviously won't work. I'd be willing to bet all my possessions that you haven't even TRIED more than half of the advice you were given, and if you DID, you tried it once and concluded, based on ONE attempt, that it "just wouldn't work."
Your thinking patterns are also screwy. They're completely negative.
So, my advice, in summation, is this:
Figure out your own behavior patterns in conversation and see what is working against you.
Take some of the advice and try it AT LEAST ten times before you knock it.
Think positive. Think possibilities. Think constructively.
Work hard.
2007-02-27 12:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't think so much when your considering talking to a girl always be your self if not that will not work out at all it doesn't really matter what other people think as long as you say yourself and be positive every girl is different some are shy some are not you just need to talk to them to get to know how there like.(oh that girl kitty is my Friend and she though it would be funny if she put my e-mail down it's not me).
2007-02-28 07:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well alot of girls say that they are ready for a relationship and they will flirt with you and they will act like they like you and then when it comes down to dateing they dont want to do it guys to the same thing to0... theirs nothing wrong with you i think your very cute... but you cant just be like is their something wrong with me is that why i cant get a gurl blah blah blah... i think i hear that from my guy friends almost every day... you have to become more out their and try new things and look the look of a "bad boii" but act like a "good boyfriend"
2007-02-27 12:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by ..::Leigh' Ana Babiie::.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stop being conceded and just ask a girl out. You think it may be the girl when it may actually be the way you act around them.
2007-02-27 12:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, stop trying so hard, relax, let love come to you. Get her attention, conversate, and look into her eyes, not down shirt.
2007-02-27 12:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are shy and they dont like online relationships if thats what you mean by meeting girls online its weird i mean it tried it did work out but you just need to be yourself and if the girl doesnt like you then forget them you dont need someone like that=]
if you want message me at www.myspace.com/bloodsuckingfufu
2007-02-27 12:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by sexyfufunater89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like leonardo dicaprio. or go to starbucks, and ask a pretty lady out
2007-02-27 12:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Asianpotai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just need to be a little more assertive maybe ?
2007-02-27 12:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by poker_guru4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to ireland. 3to 1 ratio, women to men.
2007-02-27 12:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋