This is a relationship question. I have been talking to this guy for about three months now.?

Question

He lives about 300 miles from me, I have known him for a long time and we started talking again through myspace. He was home for a month during xmas break and we spent alot of time together during that time. He will be finished with school in May and then I am not sure what his plans are. We agreed when he left that we would continue to talk and see eachother when we could. I have been to see him once and he will be home in a couple of weeks for a week. It has been difficult to keep things going with him, one day he is so sweet and attentive and the next he is mean and distant. I am going to be an hour away from him this weekend and I asked him to do something and he said his best-friend is coming from out of town, and he has to work. Which I understand. Last night I asked him what he wants from me, he said he likes me its hard being apart though. He stated that he would like to continue to do what we have been doing. What does he want, why does he act so diff all the time?

I am a female, not sure why it shows a male picture.

Answer 1

He's probably just as confused as you are. He doesn't really know what he wants right now. He's finishing school in May (not too far from now) and things are busy in his life. He probably has a lot going on and tons to think about.

But this shouldn't be a reason to be mean and distant either!

Sounds like he doesn't want to let you go, but just doesn't know how to keep you either. He may want more out of the relationship but b/c of the distance, doesn't know what to do about it. He may be hoping that after May, things will be the way they should be.

I say talk to him when you see him again and lay it all out for him.

Hope this helped and wish ya the best! ♥

Answer 2

This is one of the most confusing times in his life - he is about to graduate college and go into the realworld. That transistion may include you or it may not. Don't take it personally. He is under a lot of stress to finish his degree and have a life too. He sounds like he is giving you the most amount of time he can, which is a good sign. Perhaps take it slow and concientrate (as hard as it sounds!) on yourself and future and keep the doors open a crack for him. Plus, he is a young guy and men that age tend not to know what they want or act differentally, so try to take his wishywashy attitute not to heart.

Good luck

Answer 3

What you should do is try to be patince,and then see what you can do to imorove the problem,if you can's fix things,just break-up you will find someone better,so don't worry!