All the guys think I am to girly. I hold my girlfriend when she is upset and I talk to her when she is lonely. Is this being to feminine or something? Should I stop doing this?
2007-02-27 04:32:21 · 27 answers · asked by 333(i'm only 1/2 evil) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way
I am so jealous. That is exactly how you are supposed to treat a girl. who cares what your dumbass friends think it is your life and your girl. I wish you were mine.
if you ever get tired of her email me at M_A_S_H_9_2@yahoo.com
2007-02-28 04:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Stop these Action then you will be Respected?
1. Don't talk like a girl's action
2. Holding her, is not good becuases you are not her lover. As well as you are a guy not a girl. Therefore avoid holding girlfriends hand.
3. Do not always sit near her when you are studying or learning. Be always with the guys.
If you follow this i think you will be a gentleman
2007-02-27 12:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Muhammad A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, sweetheart...listen, being girly has nothing to do with talking to your girlfriend or how often you talk to her, but it has everything to do with what you talk about and how you behave. First off, depending on your age (10-17), there is nothing wrong with being girly cos you will have the rest of your life to grow up and act like a woman. Secondly, if the boys you like think you are too girly, just ask them to tell you why they think so, or how should you behave according to them. Thirdly, if you really are talking about make-up, hair styling and clothes and you really want to change, just start thinking about something else; go pick up a magazine or newspaper and educate yourself on other practical stuff cos there are plenty of things going on in this world (but you don't have to!). Anyways, let's face it, you are never going to be talking about naked ladies in magazines or beautiful cars (boy talk) so you are bound to stay girly and that's OK. Tell the guys they will just have to deal with it!
2007-02-27 12:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called being compassionate and its the only way to be in a relationship. You are definitely doinf the right thing by communicating as well. I would imagine those who are putting you down are either single due to their inability to do what you do, or are miserable in their own relationship. That being said, you are doing what a good man does.
2007-02-27 12:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by jjroski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we say JEALOUS!!???
They are jealous that you can connect with your girlfriend like this. Most guys are not able to get to the level where they feel comfortable enough around their girlfriends where they can do this. Kudos to you for being the bigger guy!
You should not stop this. Tell them to buzz-off! They have nothing to do with what makes you and your girlfriend's relationship work. Whatever works, works!
Hope this helped, and keep up the good work! â¥
2007-02-27 12:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not. You're being a a gentleman and friend to her. You're putting a shoulder for her to cry on. You're putting your favorite shirt on the line, so she can clean her tears and boogers on it...So, dude, you're doing the right thing. Don't you trip about what your friends say. Good Luck! Keep being a man. Laters. As far as you know, your homies probably envy you.
2007-02-27 12:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty girly. But if done in the right context, it's fine. I don't think it matters WHAT you do, it's HOW you do it. If you're doing it because you think it's best for both of you, then fine. If you're doing it cuz she wants to, then it's no good.
2007-02-27 12:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy the only reaosn they are calling you that is because 1) They don't know how 2) It makes them look bad 3) Who cares, you're the one with the girl.
2007-02-27 12:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by RCandMoonPie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it is not being too feminine and no you should not stop doing this. you are only doing what all men are supposed to do. keep it up. the people who are downgrading you for doing this don't know what they are talking about. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-27 12:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you sound like a great boyfriend, don't stop doing it! The other guys are probably jealous that they don't have such natural warmth & consideration. You are a rarity & your girlfriend is very lucky.
2007-02-27 12:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by harlowtoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. When she is upset, just beat her, and when she is lonely, just ignore her and make her even more lonely. That's what a real man does.
2007-02-27 12:36:10 · answer #11 · answered by harakiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋