i think I'm going to tell this guy that i like him...I'll probably say something like "i've had feelings for you since *blah blah* and i just want to know if I'm wasting my time feeling this way..." and see what he says. Or should I say something else?
guys, what would you say to me in response to what I said in these dif scenarios:
1)you like me back
2)you like me as a friend but don't see me like that
3)you really don't even care whether I like you or not
2007-02-27 04:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by kate 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'M ASKING: how you would phrase your response in each of those scenarios so that i don't get confused with how he answers. I'm NOT asking with which of the three answers you would respond. Thanks.
2007-02-27 04:28:01 · update #1
btw, he's kinda laid back...i've been flirting with him for like 6 months now...i make comments like "you're cute" and stuff in different situations....so he's gotta have some idea that I like him. it's not like it's TOTALLY coming out of the blue.
2007-02-27 04:30:31 · update #2
I'd say what you said verbatim. I wouldn't mince words.
hope it goes well for you, by the way.
2007-02-27 04:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.I've had deep feeling for you since we met...
2.Wow, that is very sweet, and I like you too, but not that way, more as a good friend.
3. Uhh, well that's nice but I do not feel the same way.
2007-02-27 12:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ken R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to show the guy you like him. I am not sure the aggressive approach would work. He might just stare back at you with that typical "deer in the headlights" look most guys have.
2007-02-27 12:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would most likely say. Let me get to know the real you before I make up my mind. Lets go slow and see where it ends up.
2007-02-27 12:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, we dont know how this guy thinks, so we wont have the same answer. I would choose number 3 cuz i dont know you.
2007-02-27 12:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
number one a guy always get scared when they have feelings for a girl. they cant get it out of their mouth to say it that's how scared they get
2007-02-27 12:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by teddybearbigboy21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your on the right track.. what you said is straight forward.. he should say i have feeling too.. so i'm going this #1.. good luck to you..
2007-02-27 12:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Breaker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋