Im very concerned about my friend. He wants to leave this woman. She drinks, is very manipulative & complicated. But she seems to be blackmailing him. What could it be. He is suffering but seems scared to leave. what could be the reason & what should I do as a friend.
2007-02-27 04:20:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to him.
Sit him down and ask him why he won't leave her. Tell him you're worried about him and you only want what's best for him. Listen to the situation and make sure you know what's going on.
She may not even be blackmailing him. He might just love her so much that he can't bear the thought of leaving her.
Make sure he knows you only want what's best for him, and if he's uncomfortable telling you, don't push him.
Best of luck to you!
xxx
2007-02-27 04:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Spamoid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have family going threw the same thing and im here to tell you not to push the part of leaveing her because if you do he will draw away from your friendship , all you can do is kinda read between the lines and see what you think it could be maybe she has thretened him saying she will call the law for abuse or something you never know just try to get him out away from her as much as possible with other couples and let him see they dont act like she dose. and let him realize it on his own but be there for him when he is ready to talk . notice how she states things around him like dose she say you are so mean to me or your so abusive or you know what you did things like that and you will soon get the picture of what her hold is on him
2007-02-27 12:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by family fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me. I'm very good at this type of stuff. I probably can digs some dirt about her up that he can use to counter-blackmailing her or something.
2007-02-27 12:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that what ever she has against him is useless if he confesses. If he did something illegal and she is using it against him then you should try to get him to confess to the police. If he confesses there may not even be a charge and if there id=s it will be leniant as it was confessed then he'll be free
2007-02-27 12:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do until he makes up his mind to leave her. He cannot be suffering that much or he would leave.
2007-02-27 12:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew the hold some women have over men, i have seen these kind of situations before and it seems like there is nothing you can do and no rhyme or reason why they stay.
2007-02-27 12:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take him away and talk to him and ask him, why is he still with her and if she's blackmailing him. let him know he can trust you and that you won't tell anyone nomatter what it is.
2007-02-27 12:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Shannyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably knows he enjoys anal sex.
That one always makes a guy, that says he's straight, fear a woman.
2007-02-27 12:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business, if he wanted you to know he would have told you.
2007-02-27 12:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him your perspective in the matter try to make him see what you are seeing, if he still don't, that's his problem you can just sit there and support him.
2007-02-27 12:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋