Please help?

Question

A girl, who became my life. I can’t imagine my life without her, but she says that I’m only a good friend for her. What should I do? Please help

Answer 1

I'd respect her feelings. If it was meant to be then it will happen. There are more women out there and this way you will still have a good friend, which is very hard to find. If you push it with her you may lose her altogether.

Answer 2

Have you told her how you feel? If not, then you can try telling her and see if that changes her feelings about you BUT most likely if she doesn't feel the same way about you, it's not going to make a difference.

My suggestion would be to remain friends and maybe over time she will realize you are a great person and develop more of a fondness for you...but she may always just see you as a friend which puts you in the position of having to see her happy and sad in other relationships which can be hard.

Don't try and make her love you or make her change her mind because if you press too hard, you'll lose even the friendship you have with her.

Answer 3

I don't know if this shall seem like preaching to u,but believe me,i have passed a similar situation.I was in love with my best friend,and that too to such an extent that i had attempted to kill myself when he said he loved sum1 else.But then he made me understand that sum1 else sumwhere is made just 4 me.I believed him and waited and accepted life as it came.Today,i love a boy to whom i'm the life and the death.I'm grateful that my friend had rejected me that day.Come on.Brace urself up.I know its not all that easy,but certainly u have to move 4ward,and after all,u'll always have her as ur friend,won't u?

Answer 4

Hard to say and even harder for you to do... But you need to move on. She has clearly stated that she is not interested in you in the way that you are in her. As much as this hurts you, it is in your best interest to move on, mourn and recover. In time you will find someone who will reciprocate your feelings and give you what you deserve and much more. You just need to be available and willing.
Sorry that there isn't an answer that involves getting her back, but she has made that clear it isn't going to happen.
I wish you the best of luck, my dear! : )

Answer 5

First find out whether she has someone else other than you,as a contender. If she has than you are pursuing a mirage, leave her alone. However, if she doesn't, than give her time to decide. At some time she may change her mind for the better.

Answer 6

I'M SORRY TO READ THIS. DON'T MAKE ANYONE YOUR LIFE. SHE SAY'S SHE LIKES YOU AS A FRIEND SO YOU WON'T BE OUT OF HER LIFE. THAT'S GOOD! MAYBE SHE SEE'S YOU AS BEING TOO NEEDY. DON'T CALL AS MUCH FIND YOURSELF A HOBBY. GET ANOTHER FRIEND TO HANG OUT WITH, STAY AWAY FOR AWHILE, KEEP THIS IN MIND KNOW ONE CAN MAKE ANYONE LIKE THEM. KNOW MATTER WHAT YOU DO. OR WHO YOU ARE. FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL CHERISH YOU FOR THE PERSON YOU ARE. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

follow this
dont run after 2 thgs in life:
girl and a bus because wen one goes another comes
let her b . enjoy yr life

Answer 8

i've been that girl, a good friend told me that he really liked me but i only liked him as a friend. it left things really awkward for along time but we're good friends again. so basically i think go for it what have you really to loose. if she says no then atleast you've asked. if you have already told her and she then told you that she thinks of you as a good friend then leave it. good luck

Answer 9

Just accept it and move on. It's all you can do. Try to appreciate her friendship for what it is instead of hoping that it'll become more.

Answer 10

I can understand... but u cannot compell her into ur relation.

Nothing to worry ! U'll be fine !

Best wishes !