okay so me and a girl have been going out for about a month now. and it just seems that I'm doing all the work. from holding hands to deciding where we go on our dates. I mean she can show some kind of effert.right?
2007-02-27 04:11:23 · 6 answers · asked by John H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well next time ask her where do u want to go? maybe shes shy....and since ur paying for it she doesnt want to ask to go to an expensive resturant....or what movie to see... as for holding ur hands, it may just embarrass her,to act so forward. tell her its ok to open up to you that u will respect her thoughts. and if shes still that way just ask her do u really like me... because im not feeling it.. just to see what she will say... if she likes you, she will say so... good luck..
2007-02-27 05:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even in today's world with the emphasis on equality of the sexes, some girls and women are stuck in the past and think that the guys are supposed to make all of the moves and initiate everything. Talk to her about it and let her know that it's ok for her to be a little forward and that her opinions would be most welcome.
2007-02-27 06:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Coop's Wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to see what you got. either she's testing you...or she likes to hang out with you, and doesn't really want to order you around. or on the other side, she might (MIGHT) not be into you.
hint at her to chose something. so that she feels more included, and quit making all the decisions. say hun, i want (sundays) to be my off day, so that we can do whatever it is you want to do.
she should like that! =)
2007-02-27 04:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her. Maybe she doesn't know that you want her to make some decisions, too.
2007-02-27 04:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a follower and likes to be told what to do.
2007-02-27 04:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by teddybearbigboy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be afraid to... she probably really likes you & doesn't want to mess things up... talk to her about it
2007-02-27 04:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by purpleflare79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋