I am a sophomore in High School and I have a couple friends as seniors. One of them is a guy I have know since my Freshman year and I grew close with especially over the last summer. His name is Nate, and I have had a crush on him for 2 years. He has a steady girlfriend now, and they have been dating for 10 months. He really loves her. I knew he used to like me, but I never did until after he started dating Jamie. Here's the thing. I still really really like him, and he's graduating in May. I don't want to lose him before he knows, but I don't want to ruin him and Jamie. He knows I find him attractive, but I don't think he knows that I love him, and that I have since day one. I have had other boyfriends, but I always think about him....What do I do?
2007-02-27 04:06:02 · 11 answers · asked by purplemallkitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't ruin his relationship with his gf. why didn't youjust tell him 2 years ago. I'm sorry to say this but you just waited too long and now it's too late
2007-02-27 04:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave it and if you still feel the same way when he breaks up with Jamie then tell him. you said yourself he loves Jamie and he used to like you. Plus you've said you've have had a crush on him for two years and then you've said you love him. a cruch is not love. if the two of you are meant to be it will happen but if you say it now you may ruin your friendship plus you are a good bit younger. sorry but i think you shouldn't say anything, you will get over it.
2007-02-27 12:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shannyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i fee l u. I was going through the same thing. I told him how i felt. I just said that i know how much u r in love with ur gf and i know that she is important to u and ur relationship is to but i have had a crush on u for a while but i don't want to ruin our friendship or ur relationship with her but i can't hold this in any more. I love u i have always loved u and it didn't matter how many bf i have had but we couldn't last because i was to stuck on u. My world revolve around u and i can't be with out you. And guess waht he said. Yeah i love her but i love u more. I have always felt that way about you but didn't know if u felt the same way. And we are still together today. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years and we are more in love than before. So i say go for it. Tell him how you feel but prepare yourself for the worst. You are stressing yourself but if he do reject you, you may cry, and scream, and feel like your heart is broken but in the end you will know that you did the right thng by letting him know how you feel and you never know he might dump her and wait for you to graduate. But it is always good to wait.
2007-02-27 12:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by PassionatePices 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that he is with Jamie, and just let it go. It is better in the long run.
Put yourself in her shoe's and think how you would like it if somebody else was trying to make moves on your guy.
He is with someone, and that really makes him off limits.
2007-02-27 12:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl if he has a steady girlfriend just leave it alone when you had the chance u lost it know what u can do is be honest say something like im not trying to hurt youre relationship but this is how i feel just be honest about it you dont know he might just change hes mind
2007-02-27 12:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by moniquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a fool of yourself. Keep this to yourself, because it won't change anything except make things awkward between you. He has a girlfriend. Go find a boyfriend for yourself.
2007-02-27 12:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are infatuated with him, you dont love him--look it up, but usually that what crushes fall into. I wish you luck, but he's a guy too if he wanted you over the other girl he has that option.
2007-02-27 12:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye and move on. If you were the one dating him, how would you feel about another girl telling him she loves him?
2007-02-27 12:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. That's not love. I'm sorry to tell you that. If he already has a girlfriend, just let him go.
2007-02-27 12:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That is a tough one. I don't know.
2007-02-27 12:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋