How do you be friends when you are together its just natural to be together like a couple no matter what either of our situations are. I want to be friends with him but when we see each other its like were together. But we cant go out because theres to much in our past that we both havent over come to have a good honest relationship help plz....Sorry if its hard to understand
2007-02-27 04:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If both of you like each others company and get along well, then just keep hanging out like you do and if both of you are aware that an honest relationship is not possible... keep what you have going and let it ride out wherever god intends it to end up.
2007-02-27 04:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit with him and talk about the reasons you should be together and bring up past and present problems. You need to talk some things out. If you have these feelings for each other and your already friends...work it through so you can have something together. Good luck
2007-02-27 12:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got men friends and don't feel the need for it be awkward. I suspect that your situation has something specifically to do with your own relationship with this guy, so you either have to hash it out (talk aboout it) or spend time apart if you don't want it to turn into MORE of a relationship.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 12:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do understand...its really hard wen both of u still cant let go of the past....just stay friends with him as possible..and dont do anything for him to dislikes u...coz guys sometimes tends to weigh and compare present to past...its o.k if u both feel the same way...as in likely more than friends...as long as both of u still free and available...dont worry time will come that u both will overcome watever its in ur past...they said "time heals".
2007-02-27 12:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by suarez_stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could take it slowly. Its obvious you'll have a certain affection/ attraction/ warmth. You could meet & slowly open up to one another. Maybe the pain that both of you suffered in the past will help both of you heal .
2007-02-27 12:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starts with conversation and doing things together. Talk to him about your past and he will open up to you as well.
2007-02-27 12:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be "just friends" there will always be emotions there. You will especially be tested when he finds a girlfriend.
Its best to move on now before your really heartbroken.
2007-02-27 12:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by ...Melissa... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. Know it and move on. It will just mess up your other relationships.
2007-02-27 12:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this other person, take your time, if it's meant to be then it will be but if it's not then you deal with it.
2007-02-27 12:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is he and was he a boyfriend or what?
2007-02-27 12:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋