well i love my man in alll but i like this boy and he likes me to but i just don't kno wat to do, because i like the boy and stuff can any one tell me wat to do becaus i'm desp.
2007-02-27 03:59:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i f your bf loves you too then you should stay with him and forget about this other guy
2007-02-27 04:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by spindizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion - you don't love your boyfriend - truly. If you loved your boyfriend, then you wouldnt even consider any amount of interest in another man. That's what happens when you fall madly in love, everything else doesnt matter. Sure you will still think other people are attractive, but you would never dream of acting on it, and being that you know this other guy likes you, then you have taken some action. I'm sorry, but I don't think you are in love, and you still want to experience new things, so I would break up with the boyfriend so you won't have to live in guilt about your feelings for the other man.
2007-02-27 04:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem but don't sweat it. My problem was being to in love to see that it was killing me and didn't want it to stop. It's human to want someone else. Who knows you may end up like me. Wanting someone then when you're both free realizing that their not for you either. Besides it could be the classic grass is greener situation maybe you should pick out what you like about the other person and what you love about your boyfriend and analyze whather you want to take the chance in someone else. Who knows your bf may have some of those same traits brewing in the in side.
2007-02-27 04:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya. I'm into a number of other girls now, but also in love with my girlfriend.
It's simply a matter of consequences. Not "what would happen if I got caught?" cuz I probably wouldn't. What keeps me loyal is the fact that, if I ever screwed around, I'd never get to tell my girlfriend HONESTLY that she's the only one for me. I pride myself on my honesty, so that bugs me and it keeps me faithful.
Besides, if I don't wanna settle for one woman, why did I make the commitment in the first place?
2007-02-27 04:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you can't love your man and all if you are having feelings for someone else. That is not love. If you were really in love with your man you would not have feelings for anyone else but him. So that rules out the your in love with your man!
Second you are wasting your mans time so break up with him. He deserves more than you want to give him.
Then you can go play with the other guy.
2007-02-27 04:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u make me sad. If u really loved ur bf then u wouldnt even be asking this question. u can be friends with this other guy as long as thats all u do, now if ur bf breaks up with u then go for the other guy if hes still interested....but whatever u do, never cheat.
2007-02-27 04:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by brit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you just love your b/f like you love a friend or are you head over hells in love with him, if its the first one then i think you know what you have to do because at the end of the day you will only make him and yourself unhappy
2007-02-27 04:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Annemarie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make up your mind! If you really love someone, you would never hurt them on purpose. So if you love your bf then stay away from the other guy!! If you are really so torn, break things of with the boyfriend before you lose control of yourself and end up cheating on him.
2007-02-27 04:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you Love your man like you say, you wouldn't have interest in the other guy. It is more like you are confusing Love with attraction and possibly a case of the gimme's ( he can give me this, but the other guy can give me that).
2007-02-27 04:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are low no offence. If you really love your bf and want to be with him you need to back away from the other guy. Its cool to be friends but thats it. If you and your bf decide to split and he is still interested than you have the green light to give him a try.
2007-02-27 04:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by lethalx 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hrm.. well i guess you need to figure out how much you really love him.. *your bf*
if you truly loved him it wouldn't really matter if you liked someone else.. you would just think wow that boy is cute and a nice guy.. and leave it at that..
sounds like you may not be ready for a commited relationship
2007-02-27 04:09:01 · answer #11 · answered by steph 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋