Can a really intelligent, beautiful woman tell me what are the qualities you seek in a male?

Question

Now, I know youget approached all the time and get annoyed at most dudes, but deep down you are looking for something. Please dont give me a NICE answer i am looking for the truth. You are safe i am not going to know who you are. ALL CLUB RATS PLEASE DO NOT ANSWER, i am asking cool woman who dont need to stroke thier ego in the club! I really appreciate it and it will help the future of relations!

Answer 1

Honesty, self sufficient, good sense of humor, caring, trustworthy, and an even tone of self esteem.

Answer 2

Ok, Graduate student here ready to answer...wow I didn't know men actually wondered about this ...
1. maturity
2. Can hold a conversation other than talking about himself.
3. Knows where he is going in life , as in career goals, family plans ect.
4. Preferrably has a job
5. Doesn't live at home with mommy and daddy at age 26!
6. Is clean, takes care of himself and smells good.
7. Makes it clear to his buddies that his girl is first.
8. Stands his ground, listens to what the woman has to say and tries to understand her point of view.
9. Is faithful , honest , sweet, loving
10. When someone disrespects his woman he makes her be respected at once.

Answer 3

I would take the answers you get with a grain of salt. Most women when asked this question will tell you the qualities they like, which is different from what they are attracted to at a visceral level. Men probably do the same, I'm not bashing women here.

I'm sure all of what the above (and below to come) posters write is true, but I can also tell you that confidence is certainly one of the most important factors for any women.

Answer 4

Mainly confidence, he has to aproach you with confidence and a smile. complimens wouldn't go a miss either. oooo and smelling nice always gets the womens attention.

1) Sight - If you look good you feel good and if you feel good you look good. That means that what you wear is as important as how you carry yourself. If you have a crappy outfit on but are smiling and happy and affable to all then she will see less of your exterior and see more of your interior. This is not to say you should not be apparel conscience because your apparel should "appeal" as well. Women are fashion savvy so just remember when it comes to dress, "don't set trends and don't break rules" and SMILE A LOT.

2) Smell - Lift your arm up right now and smell your armpit and your hands. Do your hands and pits smell like yesterday? Cologne and aftershave are "personal" choices. Choose fragrances that flatter your natural smell and most importantly: A women should only smell your cologne if you are within "handshake" distance from her - any farther and you reek. Now lick the back of your hand three times - if you do this you can smell what your own breath smells like. Also, "pheromones" are essential to attraction so if you stink like cologne she might not pick yours up. Less is more.

3) Hear - How you speak to a female is so very important. First and foremost if SHE is talking then you are golden. She will hear that you are interested in her by what you ASK HER or talk about. Smile often and look her in the eye so she thinks you are sitting on every word. When she asks you a question or finishes her own answer then immediately ask her another question about herself. People like to talk about themselves. She will take your good listening behavior as a turn on because you appear interested in HER. When you do speak - now it is important to appeal to HER HEARING. Speak clearly, not loudly, use soft tones when possible and shorten your stories to the most interesting points. Don't be afraid to paint pictures that are suggestive. Instead of telling a story of you going "swimming" tell a story of you going "skinny dipping". That "sounds" sexier.

4) Touch - Everybody has their own "bubble" and when a female does not know you yet she does not want you in hers. However, if you look and smell good and are a good listener then by this point it is safe to say she is a little more comfortable now. "Handshake length" is how close you should stand or sit next to a woman you have NOT been intimate with yet. You sit close enough for her to see, smell and hear you but you sit this close so if she decided to touch you then she could with ease. If you two are chatting in a bar etc. then you should only touch her on the arm and only when making a point in your story or if you two share a laugh. She might do the same. If she is walking in front of you then when you open a door for her only touch her on the lower back. These show "respect" in touching and lets her know you want HER in YOUR bubble.

5) Taste - You are thinking how I can get a girl with my taste buds. Well, I just told you in the last 4 paragraphs. You see "manners and etiquette" fall under the taste umbrella. If you are in the presence of a female that is interested in you and you follow the last four paragraphs then TASTE will be the topper. Tease her. Your polite, mannered behavior will tease her because now she is in front of a well dressed, well spoken, sweet smelling, non invasive male who is a good listener. At this point - if she is really interested - make her wait - tease her as long as you can because my friend she wants to rape you



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Answer 5

Truthfully, a man who loves me for who I am and doesn't want to change anything about me. A guy with a good sense of humor, down to earth, not materialistic, loves animals,and is open minded with people of different religions,cultures,and sexual preferences.

Answer 6

all that a girl should ask for from a guy is that they are honest, and loyal, and for them to just be themselves.also if your trying to turn a head give a sly wink and don't over do the aftershave. turn on the charm and let yourself, be yourself around her.good luck : )

Answer 7

ok, its alittle overboard but..
Hes gotta make me laugh. But not at stupid/sexual jokes.
Hes gotta be fun to be around. One of my good friends.
Hes gotta look good. Nice hair, gorgeous eyes. Beautiful SMILE.
He has got to be MATURE. I cant stand immature jokers.
little partying. if any
no drinking
no smoking
no cussing
but hey what do i know?
I'm just 16>..
I hope it helps.

Answer 8

maturity is #1!
Honesty
Good personality
Responsable
Knows where he is going in life and what he wants from it
(I'm 28 and engaged) I was pretty picky with guys but I found him!