PLEASE I AM REALLY NEEDING HELP WITH THIS S H I T!!
if anyone has ever been torn between two or more ppl please tell me what in the hell to do about it!!
2007-02-27 03:41:49 · 25 answers · asked by get_high_and_hope_it_gets_u_by 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to follow your heart. And make sure you tell the others your decision. Good Luck Sweety. I hope it all works out in the end : )
2007-02-27 03:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, OK, I'm here. Try to relax.
Torn between 2 lovers? Feeling like a fool? Those were the lyrics to an old song. Read your original question and so you know what you want to do. you just don't know why you are jealous of the other guy. Am I right?
Ever hear of unrequited love? That's what you had with guy #1. It's a pretty strong feeling and it's hard to let go of. It probly happens b/c you had set your goal on 1 thing and when you didn't get it you felt like you had lost something. But really U never had it, so it wasn't a loss at all. Just an attraction that was strong, but not returned. Like dropping your fish hook into the sea hoping to catch the big one, but instead getting a good sized one that will feed your family and taste better than the big one. Does that mean you still want the big one? Sure, but do you need it? Not at all.
You need to let go of that old goal and tell yourself it was a good try, but that fish really wasn't for you. Maybe somebody else will catch him , but they won't be as satsified with theirs as you are now with yours. And that other one will probably just jump out of their boat anyway, since he is a slimy old devil. Be happy with what you got.
2007-02-27 12:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been and it killed me to choose, but in the end, I chose and after a few weeks the other person that I didn't choose wound up being a really close friend. So, like everyone else, I say CHOOSE!!
Good Luck!
2007-02-27 11:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bad 33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide which seems more compatable to you. Who do you have more fun with? Who is nicer and will respect you more? Better looking j/k (well not). All in all who is the person that you think will make you feel happier and someone who you'd want to be with. God Bless You! =)
2007-02-27 11:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by girlpowerart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I have been there, but i can not tell you what to do. You have to decide which one you want because you can not play both of them. You have to decide which one you want to be in a relationship with and don't worry about choosing the wrong one because what is meant to be will be... even if you choose the wrong one and you guys break up. if you are meant to be with the other then you will get with him/her eventually! :)
2007-02-27 11:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by desperado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been torn btween 2 people all u can do is wait and see what happens w/ ur feelings. or see whats happening now. if u have stronger feelings for one then go to them if the other then go to the other. if ur not sure wait and see what happens
2007-02-27 11:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out ,you seem to have a attitude problem.Depends on what your talking about.2 or more people??? Chose 1 or all or none.Whats the problem???????
2007-02-27 11:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So funnee Have feelins 4 the other gi - is new gi not doing it 4 U?
2007-02-27 11:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by PervyRetard 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is waht u do. find out why each of them like u and if u don't like some of the reasons then drop that person. then find out if u can trust them. the one u feel u can trust the most will most likely be your best choice.
2007-02-27 11:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to choose one or the other, and stay with the one u choose, too much trouble can come from being with 2. make sure u choose wisely.
2007-02-27 11:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋